Mal: How drunk was I last night? Jayne: Well I dunno. I passed out.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 35: We Got a History  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Daisy Jane - May 09, 2007 11:01:31 am PDT #8207 of 10003
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

(or something less southern)

No! Southernisms are the best. If you can't say something nice or profound make up a confusing metaphor!- as my grandmother used to say.


Nora Deirdre - May 09, 2007 11:03:29 am PDT #8208 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

"While I can't force you to be the person I wish you were, I absolutely have the right to recognize that you aren't what I need and therefore will end the relationship."

What Vortex said. I may just C&P that shit straight up!


Daisy Jane - May 09, 2007 11:05:44 am PDT #8209 of 10003
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

You're welcome to it.


Nora Deirdre - May 09, 2007 11:06:45 am PDT #8210 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

(I didn't mean "shit" in a perjorative sense, btw, just being sorta slangy. It's really an excellent way of putting things.)


vw bug - May 09, 2007 11:06:46 am PDT #8211 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Anyone have any comments on the e-mail?

t /needy

Oh, who the hell am I kidding?! That tag never closes!


Nora Deirdre - May 09, 2007 11:07:23 am PDT #8212 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I like the email, vw.


Sparky1 - May 09, 2007 11:12:25 am PDT #8213 of 10003
Librarian Warlord

I like the email, too, vw. The only suggestion I have is that you put some kind of time frame on it -- "my schedule is fairly flexible for the next few weeks, but I'd really like to speak with you before (date) so I can think about this commitment." Or somesuch.

I didn't fall asleep in my meeting, but it was close.


vw bug - May 09, 2007 11:14:18 am PDT #8214 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Oh, that's good. Thanks, guys!


Daisy Jane - May 09, 2007 11:14:54 am PDT #8215 of 10003
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

(I didn't mean "shit" in a perjorative sense, btw, just being sorta slangy. It's really an excellent way of putting things.)

Oh, no I didn't think you did. I used to feel like I owed it to someone to be his or her friend or girlfriend and would get really frustrated when they wouldn't behave according to whatever model of correct friend/boyfriend behavior I had in my head. Then I was told I couldn't make anyone behave that way, which made sense, but left me with several more years of frustration over whether or not my models of behavior were wrong and maybe I should just accept others for who they are and then something happened that made me go "Sure. I can't demand that you don't knowingly hurt me, but I have the right to want someone who won't."


beekaytee - May 09, 2007 11:19:41 am PDT #8216 of 10003
Compassionately intolerant

Then I was told I couldn't make anyone behave that way, which made sense, but left me with several more years of frustration over whether or not my models of behavior were wrong and maybe I should just accept others for who they are and then something happened that made me go "Sure. I can't demand that you don't knowingly hurt me, but I have the right to want someone who won't."

Sing it sister!