To clarify that post up there wierd as in strange Northern Michigan lexicon not wierd as in goths are wierd.
Gunn ,'Underneath'
Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Is the being set up on a blind date a good thing, vw?
I don't know. I haven't been on a date in like 12 years. What do the kids do these days?
slinks away
Stop that! You just happened to ask about one of my (very) hot buttons. I'm not miffed with you in the slightest.
Maybe she was talking about the Cutter what Echo & his Bunnymen thought should be Sparethed?
And, Steph, can I just say:
yes you have from time to time have over edited
I don't know what of this man's fine writing you thought you needed to edit at all! (and YAY FOR THE FREEDOM!! sorry you are getting hassled about it)
slinks back
Ok. I am calling her right now to ask her again.
And I killed the tread.
Maybe, but she's psychologist so she knew what that term "cutter" meant and said it was different.
Well, I'm a psychologist and I think it means what you said. It's the most common form of self-harm in adolescents so people sometimes use "cutter" to refer to all kids that engage in self-harm, even if they don't actually cut themselves. Perhaps that was what she had in mind.
Yeah, but I'd start calling him emo-boy, and ask him if he wanted to listen to The Smiths.
At which point, I think you'd have Dean on an invisible leash for the rest of always, because he'd so totally be your bitch.
VW, maybe just chat and flirt? Over coffee?
I don't know. I haven't been on a date in about 11 years, but that sounds good.
Can one be a psychologist and crazy at the same time?
This is correct:
Well, I'm a psychologist and I think it means what you said. It's the most common form of self-harm in adolescents so people sometimes use "cutter" to refer to all kids that engage in self-harm.
Either she's totally wrong or employing some alternative usage of "cutter" that's only gonna cause confusion with the widespread psych. usage.
VW, maybe just chat and flirt? Over coffee?
I like it. We decided that she's just giving him my e-mail (and a link to my flickr account), so we'll see what happens.
I bought yarn today--orange and purple--the baby room colors. I'm trying to like them. I really, really am.
Also, I didn't mean to imply that because she's psychologist that she is all knowing of all things goth and stuff. I just meant that cause she's one, she would know what a cutter is in terms of self-injury and would have been all over that shit if her son said that he was one or a friend of his was.
::hopes this removes leg from mouth::