River: 1001. 1002. Simon: River... River: Shh. I'm counting between the lightning and the thunder to see if the storm is coming or going. .1005

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 34: They're All Slime and Antlers  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jessica - Jan 26, 2007 8:07:22 am PST #2837 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Where is Jessica, dammit? I want to cheer her baby boy to her face. Inasmuch as, you know, internet, web, face.

I didn't mean to post and run, I swear! But I was only home for a few minutes in between the doctor and the screening (and my Treo was low on batteries so I couldn't check the board from the theatre), and then I was really tired so I went to bed, and then I had Way Too Much Work this morning to catch up.

t hangs head in shame

I vow to maintain what is, frankly, my favorite aspect of my girly plumbing, which is the whole orgasm thing.

Excellent plan!

Jessica - Pregnancy caffeine gets the thumbs up!

Hooray for validation! (Er, since I never gave it up. I switched to tea during my first trimester because the smell of coffee made me gag, but I've been back on it for a few weeks now. Just one cup a day, but that's all I normally drink anyway.)

Baby Boy Wee Turtle SonOfJessAndEthan!!! You may decide to pick another name. I won't be hurt.

Well, maybe for a middle name...

And, actually, I'd like an informal Bitch polling here -- should one avoid giving a kid a really weird middle name even if you really like it? Not "Moon Unit" or "Apple" weird, but, um, fictional. From a genre universe. Slightly more obscure than "Frodo" but only just. (And not actually LotR, but you get the idea.)

My feeling is that it's a middle name and should therefore yield a minimum amount of trauma. But I may just be in deep denial. DH likes the name too. My sister has vetoed it on principle, but she doesn't really get a vote.


Aims - Jan 26, 2007 8:11:57 am PST #2838 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I say go for it. You like it, DH likes it. That's all that matters.

I'm convinced that, for the most part, most people go through a phase where they hate their name. Not everyone, naturally, but a lot of people. I'm sure once Emeline figures out the Jayne Firefly shout-out-ish - she's gonna be mad.


juliana - Jan 26, 2007 8:13:36 am PST #2839 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

My feeling is that it's a middle name and should therefore yield a minimum amount of trauma.

I'd agree. Once I settled down to liking my first name, my middle didn't matter that much. My initials still bug, but eh.


ChiKat - Jan 26, 2007 8:13:49 am PST #2840 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

{{Robin}}

Yay, on baby boy Turtle!! Personally, I say name the kid what you want if you both like it. It's your baby.

I'm home sick today. Sick like a sick sick thing. Mucus everywhere.


Aims - Jan 26, 2007 8:14:48 am PST #2841 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

You're using Hagrid, aren't you?


Jessica - Jan 26, 2007 8:16:40 am PST #2842 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

You're using Hagrid, aren't you?

Bwah! And no. Wrong universe.

[eta:

I'm sure once Emeline figures out the Jayne Firefly shout-out-ish - she's gonna be mad.

And see, I love that I'm named after the Dune character. I think it's awesome that my parents are just that kind of giant nerds. But OTOH, Jessica's a real name, and a really common one, so it's not like I ever had to explain it to anyone. If I'd grown up as Ghanima, I might feel differently.]


vw bug - Jan 26, 2007 8:16:40 am PST #2843 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Jessica, go for it!

I'm a total nerd. I just went searching for school spoilers. There's a website that the English department uses for some classes, and the syllabus for one of my classes would be up there if the prof was using the site. He's not. So, I have to wait till Monday to see the syllabus.

Damn no spoilers!


§ ita § - Jan 26, 2007 8:19:16 am PST #2844 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Jessica, you can probably guess my opinion on atypical names.

Which is...why hide it in the middle? Kids will be traumatised anyway, and they'll hate you anyway.


Aims - Jan 26, 2007 8:20:17 am PST #2845 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

calls dibs on Ruebeus


Jessica - Jan 26, 2007 8:20:27 am PST #2846 of 10001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Which is...why hide it in the middle?

Because the first name's already picked out, and has been for years. The middle name was up in the air until we knew the gender.