Jayne: Yeah, that was some pretty risky sittin' you did there. Wash: That's right, of course, 'cause they wouldn't arrest me if we got boarded, I'm just the pilot. I can always say I was flying the ship by accident.

'Serenity'


All Ogle, No Cash -- It's Not Just Annoying, It's Un-American

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§ ita § - Aug 05, 2003 1:54:09 pm PDT #6172 of 9843
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Can couples be infertile if both people in it are fertile (do we use "fertile" for men? what should I be saying?)?

It seems a muddling of the term.

For the record, I don't think couples get pregnant either. The woman gets pregnant. The man gets her pregnant. The couple may be expecting (an addition to the family), but it's something shy of dyad pregnancy.


Madrigal Costello - Aug 05, 2003 1:57:44 pm PDT #6173 of 9843
It's a remora, dimwit.

There are heterosexual couples who both test out as medically fertile, yet are unable to concieve a child together. (And yeah, it is the woman who does all the gestating, but I'm so used to all the "we're pregnant" "shared experience" couples that I know, that it seems a natural method of wording.) And while in a medical sense, both members of a gay couple are fertile, they're still unable to have a child without outside help - something that a fertile couple doesn't have to deal with.


Theodosia - Aug 05, 2003 3:44:07 pm PDT #6174 of 9843
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Dan Savage's book about being a gay adoptive father includes the adoption counseling that he and his partner went to. After a very long day of hearing the heterosexual couples' experiences with fertility treatments et al, he realized one important difference was that he and his partner had already been through and come to terms with the idea that they were "infertile" whereas for the hets it was a big, life-altering realization.


evil jimi - Aug 05, 2003 7:54:09 pm PDT #6175 of 9843
Lurching from one disaster to the next.

I'm going to stay out of the gay marriage discussion b/c if I joined in I'd probably have to start using such words as, "kill" and "all" and "Liberals".

Re scones:

You know when milk goes off and you're left with a solid in the bottom half of the carton and a foul smelling liquid in the top half?

According to my mate's recently deceased grandmother, scones were conceived as a method to not waste milk that had gone bad. Thus, proper traditional scones are made with the solid part of sour milk. I don't know what else went into the recipe b/c by this time I'd stuck my fingers in my ears. La La La

Swear to ghod, Snake!


Angus G - Aug 05, 2003 7:59:54 pm PDT #6176 of 9843
Roguish Laird

Note to Americans re jimi's post: Australian "Liberals" are not the same as American "liberals". In fact, they're more or less the opposite.


Burrell - Aug 05, 2003 8:07:12 pm PDT #6177 of 9843
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

In point of fact, insurance does not usually cover most infertility treatments. In some countries, like Canada, yes, but only after something like a year or more, plus there are other constraints. In the US, it varies greatly, but in most states only diagnostic tests for infertility are covered, not treatments. As far as I know, NZ is like America in its general lack of infertility coverage. Most couples dealing with infertility are also dealing with very heavy out of pocket expenses for treatment.


Am-Chau Yarkona - Aug 05, 2003 10:53:14 pm PDT #6178 of 9843
I bop to Wittgenstein. -- Nutty

Note to Americans re jimi's post: Australian "Liberals" are not the same as American "liberals". In fact, they're more or less the opposite.

wonders where this puts them in relation to British terms

decides hide from international politics

I'll just be over here, hiding in the corner.


evil jimi - Aug 05, 2003 11:23:13 pm PDT #6179 of 9843
Lurching from one disaster to the next.

wonders where this puts them in relation to British terms

Our Libs are your Tories.


UTTAD - Aug 05, 2003 11:25:38 pm PDT #6180 of 9843
Strawberry disappointment.

I don't follow the logic. Gay couples shouldn't be allowed to marry becuase they won't breed. So does that mean they will breed if they don't marry? The argument is flawed from the get go.


Megan E. - Aug 06, 2003 2:23:32 am PDT #6181 of 9843

In point of fact, insurance does not usually cover most infertility treatments. In some countries, like Canada, yes, but only after something like a year or more, plus there are other constraints.

Most infertility treatments are not covered in Canada, such as in vetro fertilization, since they are not considered medically necessary. I have a friend who spent over $50,000 trying to get pregnant.