I'm sorry Teacup Guy is taking it badly, sj. It's a tough situation for both of you. beth is right, it can be an opportunity for growth as a couple if you can figure out how to deal with this together.
-t is me; I was about to say something similar. Not that knowing it is a "growing experience" makes it suck any less, but it I do believe that these types of situations are a little bit better when you know you at least don't have to go through them alone. (And now I have my grandfather yelling, "It builds CHARACTER!" in my mind's ear.)
I'm sorry sj, moving is stressful enough without having this to deal with, too. Of course you didn't want your living together to start out like this. I hope that you and TCG will be able to sit down together soon to figure out what your options are, and which one(s) you're going to persue. It's tough to have that conversation over the phone.
If they do show this apt to potential sellers, I think you or TCG should be there to say, "In our humble opinion, the woman from whom you're contemplating buying this place from is a mealy-mouthed weasel."
If they do show this apt to potential sellers, I think you or TCG should be there to say, "In our humble opinion, the woman from whom you're contemplating buying this place from is a mealy-mouthed weasel."
I also will have at least twenty-four hours notice to make the place look less appealing. Sort of like
Designed to Sell
in reverse.
ETA: Not that I would do that or anything.
Tries to look innocent
Edited because I misread. What sj said!
I'm sorry you're in that position, sj. That really sucks.
Everyone who commented on the Wallybee pics, aww, shucks. You're all very kind.
I think things will get better when we are both moved in and, hopefully, things settle down a bit.
Prepping for a move is stressful. I am sure things will be much better after you get settled into your new place together. Not that it makes it any easier right now.
Oh, and you can make friends with the neighbors and have them stage a curse filled fight loudly whenever someone is looking at the place!
You're all very kind.
Cause you guys are all adorable.
It's nice to see you looking so totally happy. And doooooooooomed.
I forgot to comment on the Wallybee pics! You two are the cutest couple I have seen in a long time. I think you're doomed.
Wallybee pics! Not only adorable and doomed, but you look very comfortable together. Nice.
sj - I'm sorry this is so stressful. Moving is stressful in the best of situations. What they said about getting through this with communication. Wishing you and TCG all the best.
