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It's all about choices, Faith. The ones we make, and the ones we don't. Oh, and the consequences. Those are always fun.
Angelus ,'Smile Time'
Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Apr 18, 2006 1:54:49 pm PDT #53 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Cass - Apr 18, 2006 1:56:13 pm PDT #54 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
beth is wise. Mmmmm, rum.
juliana - Apr 18, 2006 2:00:54 pm PDT #55 of 10002
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Apropos of nothing but my deep crush on Terrence Howard and my desire to share a mojito with him, this is a whole lot of pretty in one picture.
beth b - Apr 18, 2006 2:09:56 pm PDT #56 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
very pretty
Typo Boy - Apr 18, 2006 2:24:12 pm PDT #57 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
{{Cassie}}
And Suzie Q - also check out local tenants rights groups.
sj - Apr 18, 2006 2:49:49 pm PDT #58 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Excuse me while I whine again. I just talked to Teacup Guy and he is miserable. I am afraid he is going to have a bad attitude about being in this apartment the entire time we are there, and that is not how I wanted our living together to start. I want to fix this and I don't know how.
beth b - Apr 18, 2006 3:18:11 pm PDT #59 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
of course he is upset - this wasn't his plan either. But what he might need is action. talking to either a tenets rights group or looking at the local laws to look for something you guys can get out of this - lower rent , less security, a 60 notice before you have to move, anything like that. ( and it may be the rental agency you have to go after) and then you guys gotta talk - and figure out how y'all deal with big dissapointments.
{{sj and teacup guy}} Sorry you have todeal with this evil, but you guys will get through just fine.
sj - Apr 18, 2006 3:21:22 pm PDT #60 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
of course he is upset - this wasn't his plan either. But what he might need is action. talking to either a tenets rights group or looking at the local laws to look for something you guys can get out of this - lower rent , less security, a 60 notice before you have to move, anything like that. ( and it may be the rental agency you have to go after) and then you guys gotta talk - and figure out how y'all deal with big dissapointments.
He would love to just get out of this totally; unfortunately, that is not an option for us right now. Even if we could get out of the rental agreement, we have to be out of our current places in 12 days. But, he keeps coming back to wanting to get out of this anyway. As for getting something out of it, it doesn't look like that is going to happen because no one feels like they did anything wrong, so they aren't willing to make any concessions.
-t - Apr 18, 2006 3:31:38 pm PDT #61 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I'm sorry Teacup Guy is taking it badly, sj. It's a tough situation for both of you. beth is right, it can be an opportunity for growth as a couple if you can figure out how to deal with this together.
sj - Apr 18, 2006 3:33:58 pm PDT #62 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Thanks. I think things will get better when we are both moved in and, hopefully, things settle down a bit. Right now we aren't spending as much time together as we would like to because we each have to pack up our own places.