Go do your homework, young lady.

I'VE DONE MOST OF IT!

Have to do the grammar exercises at home cause I have to read on the train first. So neh.

I see your bored and raise you waiting at LAX to get on a flight that is now delayed by two hours. blech.

Stupid delays and planes and such.

Especially when I have no desire at all to get on this plane.

Thanks Nicole. At least the suckage has a name and an endpoint. That, in itself, is making me feel loads better.

Now. What do I do about Fella? He could not possibly have handled this any worse without being a total bastige. He didn't do it on purpose, but he was wicked oblivious and immature.

One part of me wants to never see him again. Another part wants to figure out what I am supposed to learn from this experience. The last part, just needs a frickin' break.

Oh, Excellent news, JenP!!

Especially when I have no desire at all to get on this plane.

Are you still sick? You could back out due to illness... Everyone knows it's dangerous to fly when stuffed up.

Now. What do I do about Fella?

Honey, I think you should resort to violence. And then blame it on the whole not feeling well thing. Mild violence, even. No court would convict you.

Or - maybe just explain to him, with graphs and charts if necessary, how you're feeling regarding his actions throughout this entire mess.

He didn't do it on purpose, but he was wicked oblivious and immature.

Beej, it does smack of him not being entirely grown up. It also seems like he is not doing as good a job of taking care of himself as one might hope.

Honestly, Beej- it took you sometime to realizes he was the carrier. and it really sounds like you are blaming him. When people are sick they don't act thier best. Now, this may be a breaking point, but really it could be a learning point. The only thing that bothers me , is that it sounds like he promised to help with the medical bills, and he hasn't . He never had to make the promise, but not keeping it is another thing. but I still see learning point is possiblity - you haven't been together that long.

These three responses are exactly what has been going on in my head.

violence...

worry about how future problems would be handled...

what is the learning? It's true that neither of us has been well for pretty much the whole time. AND, I never said he should pay the bill. He promised and then left me hanging. Even if he'd just lent me the dough, I'd have appreciated the help.

Are you still sick? You could back out due to illness... Everyone knows it's dangerous to fly when stuffed up.

I thought about it but I'm pretty much over the ick. I already feel like a piece of crap for not wanting to see my family. I just don't want to get on this plane. I don't want to deal. I just want to go home.

bleh.

Hugs to ND.