I'm sorry Teacup Guy is taking it badly, sj. It's a tough situation for both of you. beth is right, it can be an opportunity for growth as a couple if you can figure out how to deal with this together.
I'm not on the ship. I'm in the ship. I am the ship.
River ,'Objects In Space'
Spike's Bitches 30: Going on Thirteen
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
-t - Apr 18, 2006 3:31:38 pm PDT #61 of 10002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
sj - Apr 18, 2006 3:33:58 pm PDT #62 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Thanks. I think things will get better when we are both moved in and, hopefully, things settle down a bit. Right now we aren't spending as much time together as we would like to because we each have to pack up our own places.
Pix - Apr 18, 2006 3:36:02 pm PDT #63 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
I'm sorry Teacup Guy is taking it badly, sj. It's a tough situation for both of you. beth is right, it can be an opportunity for growth as a couple if you can figure out how to deal with this together.
-t is me; I was about to say something similar. Not that knowing it is a "growing experience" makes it suck any less, but it I do believe that these types of situations are a little bit better when you know you at least don't have to go through them alone. (And now I have my grandfather yelling, "It builds CHARACTER!" in my mind's ear.)
Sparky1 - Apr 18, 2006 3:36:35 pm PDT #64 of 10002
Librarian Warlord
I'm sorry sj, moving is stressful enough without having this to deal with, too. Of course you didn't want your living together to start out like this. I hope that you and TCG will be able to sit down together soon to figure out what your options are, and which one(s) you're going to persue. It's tough to have that conversation over the phone.
If they do show this apt to potential sellers, I think you or TCG should be there to say, "In our humble opinion, the woman from whom you're contemplating buying this place from is a mealy-mouthed weasel."
sj - Apr 18, 2006 3:40:21 pm PDT #65 of 10002
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
If they do show this apt to potential sellers, I think you or TCG should be there to say, "In our humble opinion, the woman from whom you're contemplating buying this place from is a mealy-mouthed weasel."
I also will have at least twenty-four hours notice to make the place look less appealing. Sort of like Designed to Sell in reverse.
ETA: Not that I would do that or anything. Tries to look innocent
Pix - Apr 18, 2006 3:41:46 pm PDT #66 of 10002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Edited because I misread. What sj said!
billytea - Apr 18, 2006 3:43:31 pm PDT #67 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
I'm sorry you're in that position, sj. That really sucks.
Everyone who commented on the Wallybee pics, aww, shucks. You're all very kind.
Cass - Apr 18, 2006 3:44:43 pm PDT #68 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I think things will get better when we are both moved in and, hopefully, things settle down a bit.Prepping for a move is stressful. I am sure things will be much better after you get settled into your new place together. Not that it makes it any easier right now.
Sparky1 - Apr 18, 2006 3:45:35 pm PDT #69 of 10002
Librarian Warlord
Oh, and you can make friends with the neighbors and have them stage a curse filled fight loudly whenever someone is looking at the place!
Cass - Apr 18, 2006 3:46:27 pm PDT #70 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
You're all very kind.Cause you guys are all adorable.
It's nice to see you looking so totally happy. And doooooooooomed.