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Trudy Booth - Feb 03, 2006 4:54:02 pm PST #4862 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I don't use the name on my birth certificate, but have never done anything formal, and at this point, the birth cert is the only place where that name is .

Using Annie Oakley inspired too many questions?


Kristen - Feb 03, 2006 4:58:09 pm PST #4863 of 10002

I did it my home county, which was Kings (Brooklyn). I'm not sure if we had to do it there or we just did it there because that's where I was born and still lived. This was about 15 years ago so we just went to some Jacoby & Meyers dude because we didn't know how else to do it. (The legal fees were a birthday present from my mom.) Nowadays, you can probably do it yourself. I'm sure there are forms online. I mean, when I became a business last year, I did the ficitious name filing myself and it was fairly painless.

You might want to look into local legal publications in your area. The Daily Journal here had a service where I could send them my paperwork and they'd handle the filing, the publication and the filing of the proof of publication. Their fee was a lot less than I would have paid a lawyer.

Also, you do need a certified copy of your birth certificate. I remember this because we had to go to the courthouse to get one.


Jesse - Feb 03, 2006 5:02:38 pm PST #4864 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And Kristen has the actually useful information! I'm sure if you notify the school of a name change, it'll go on the diploma.


Kristen - Feb 03, 2006 5:04:08 pm PST #4865 of 10002

I have knowledge! And yes, once I had the official paperwork, I just marched down to the Registrar's office and everything got changed to my new name.

ETA: The only glitch was SS. I was a bit of a slacker and didn't do that for, like, three or four years. So every year or so I'd get nasty letters from them and the IRS about using the wrong SSN.


esse - Feb 03, 2006 5:07:03 pm PST #4866 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Do you know why they make you publish it?


esse - Feb 03, 2006 5:07:39 pm PST #4867 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

cereal: you get a new SSN? That will be a bitch to remember.


Kristen - Feb 03, 2006 5:08:29 pm PST #4868 of 10002

It's to ensure that you're not doing it to defraud, yadda, yadda, yadda. Usually you publish in some tiny local paper that no one reads. I think we published in some Brooklyn paper I'd never heard of before.

ETA: No, you keep the same SSN. They just update the record to reflect your new legal name. You do get a new SS card but with the same number.


esse - Feb 03, 2006 5:11:17 pm PST #4869 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Usually you publish in some tiny local paper that no one reads.

Heh. Wonder if the Berea College newspaper would count. (Not really.)

You do get a new SS card but with the same number.

Thanks, that clears it up.

Seriously, Kristen, thank you so much. This is something I've wanted to do for a long time, but I think I want to do it before I graduate; start fresh, in a way. Your information helps a lot.


amych - Feb 03, 2006 5:14:15 pm PST #4870 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

SA, it sounds weird, but you may want to check some of the wedding sites -- they usually have state-by-state lists of what's required to change your name. (Most places make it ridiculously easier for the newly-married, but they'll still have non-newlywed info for people who want to change names later or in unusual ways.)


Hil R. - Feb 03, 2006 5:14:33 pm PST #4871 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I don't use the name on my birth certificate, but have never done anything formal, and at this point, the birth cert is the only place where that name is -- my SS card, passport, etc., all have the name I actually use. The passport was the most recent time I had to show the birth cert, I think, and I just asked if it could say Jesse.

My mother recently had trouble getting her drivers license renewed, because NJ has this new system where you need to bring in about four forms of ID, and the name on her old drivers license didn't match the name on her passport. The difference was that one of them had her middle initial, and the other didn't. They made her go home and get her birth certificate to show where that middle initial came from. (Although now I'm wondering -- her birth certificate had her maiden name on it. So they wouldn't accept "Firstname Lastname" and "Firstname M. Lastname" as being the same person, but they would if they also had a document with "Firstname Middlename Maidenname." Weird.)