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'The Message'


Natter 42, the Universe, and Everything  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, flaming otters, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amych - Feb 03, 2006 5:14:15 pm PST #4870 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

SA, it sounds weird, but you may want to check some of the wedding sites -- they usually have state-by-state lists of what's required to change your name. (Most places make it ridiculously easier for the newly-married, but they'll still have non-newlywed info for people who want to change names later or in unusual ways.)


Hil R. - Feb 03, 2006 5:14:33 pm PST #4871 of 10002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I don't use the name on my birth certificate, but have never done anything formal, and at this point, the birth cert is the only place where that name is -- my SS card, passport, etc., all have the name I actually use. The passport was the most recent time I had to show the birth cert, I think, and I just asked if it could say Jesse.

My mother recently had trouble getting her drivers license renewed, because NJ has this new system where you need to bring in about four forms of ID, and the name on her old drivers license didn't match the name on her passport. The difference was that one of them had her middle initial, and the other didn't. They made her go home and get her birth certificate to show where that middle initial came from. (Although now I'm wondering -- her birth certificate had her maiden name on it. So they wouldn't accept "Firstname Lastname" and "Firstname M. Lastname" as being the same person, but they would if they also had a document with "Firstname Middlename Maidenname." Weird.)


Kristen - Feb 03, 2006 5:16:07 pm PST #4872 of 10002

No problem! I'm glad to help.

I had wanted to do it for at least two years but, as a minor, it would've required both parents signing off and, god knows, I was letting that sleeping dog lie. So it was my big 18th birthday gift. I've never regretted it.


amych - Feb 03, 2006 5:16:15 pm PST #4873 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Wonder if the Berea College newspaper would count. (Not really.)

Don't see why it wouldn't. (Or certainly the town paper would -- they usually have a section in the classifieds for tiny print legal notices. You could be right there with so-and-so's new fishing license!)

The difference was that one of them had her middle initial, and the other didn't.

Stephen had the same problem -- fracking homeland security.


Kat - Feb 03, 2006 5:30:41 pm PST #4874 of 10002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

OK. You absolutely canNOT do laundry AND yoga before finishing the paper.

Really? Yoga is done and laundry is started. I found clean pants but I just figgered out a top.

But now I'm gonna shower and then write. I swear.

Though really, I totally rock at procrastination. Paper is due tomorrow. What I did today:
1. 6:30 AM yoga
2. Go to post office unsuccessfully
3. Burke Williams to have eyebrows shaped
4. Read some of what needs to be read for today's paper
5.Take advantage of BW spa facilities and have a soak and a steam
6. Lunch
7. Start reading new book
8. Nap
9. Watch TV
10. Check the internets
11. 4:00 PM yoga class with Karen! SO FUN!
12. Post office successfully. Three of you have packages on their way. 13. Starbucks
14. Target
15. Check the internets again.

Seriously. I take procrastination to a new LEVEL.


Jesse - Feb 03, 2006 5:32:45 pm PST #4875 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

The difference was that one of them had her middle initial, and the other didn't.

That's nuts.


Lee - Feb 03, 2006 6:11:40 pm PST #4876 of 10002
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

monkey noodle.


Jesse - Feb 03, 2006 6:27:25 pm PST #4877 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

NOODLE MONKEY!

Kat, you are remarkably accomplished in your procrastination.


aurelia - Feb 03, 2006 6:46:18 pm PST #4878 of 10002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

MY tv just stayed on uninterrupted for 40 minutes and has now been doing the onoff on offon off onoff thing for over 10 MINUTES!

That happened to mine before the tuner died. I had a rebuilt tuner put in for something under $100, I think.


Kat - Feb 03, 2006 6:54:09 pm PST #4879 of 10002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Thanks, Jesse.

But the paper is now written. See. It only took an hour and that is with lots of AIM in between. I need to reread and revise if necessary and print then I'm done. easy peasy.

FTR, I'm so competitive that I feel all like, "I WIN! I KICK ASS AT PROCRASTINATION!"