Simon: Captain... why did you come back for us? Mal: You're on my crew. Simon: Yeah, but you don't even like me. Why'd you come back? Mal: You're on my crew. Why we still talking about this?

'Safe'


Natter 42, the Universe, and Everything  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, flaming otters, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sue - Feb 03, 2006 3:56:16 pm PST #4852 of 10002
hip deep in pie

msbelle, try aiming a fan on the back of the TV.

Pammy had big ones taken out, small one put in. Small ones taken out and bigger ones put in.

Kate Beckinsale is apparently in town filming a movie. I kind of want track her down to see if she's unrecognizable, but I might just not recognize her.


esse - Feb 03, 2006 4:21:42 pm PST #4853 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Does anyone know how you change your name, and what it involves after its been legally done?


Trudy Booth - Feb 03, 2006 4:29:11 pm PST #4854 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Leif is running around naked with a magnifying glass.

Tell him yes, it does matter, but its years before he should worry about it.

Anybody else watching InJustice ? I'm 99.9% sure the "mystery symbol" is a coptic cross


Trudy Booth - Feb 03, 2006 4:30:24 pm PST #4855 of 10002
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Does anyone know how you change your name, and what it involves after its been legally done?

I know in most states you get a freebie when you get married or divorced and you can change it however you want.


Megan E. - Feb 03, 2006 4:39:21 pm PST #4856 of 10002

Sue, I made it home even though the bus driver wanted to take me all the way to Sackville. *gah*

Sue and I went to see Capote tonight. I fell asleep near the end but I think that was more due to my sleepiness and less due to the slow pace of the movie.


Sue - Feb 03, 2006 4:43:11 pm PST #4857 of 10002
hip deep in pie

Sue, I made it home even though the bus driver wanted to take me all the way to Sackville. *gah*

Sackville!! Yikes! That was a close call.


Jesse - Feb 03, 2006 4:44:22 pm PST #4858 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I think it depends where you live, SA, and what you're changing it from/to. I don't use the name on my birth certificate, but have never done anything formal, and at this point, the birth cert is the only place where that name is -- my SS card, passport, etc., all have the name I actually use. The passport was the most recent time I had to show the birth cert, I think, and I just asked if it could say Jesse.


Kristen - Feb 03, 2006 4:48:16 pm PST #4859 of 10002

Does anyone know how you change your name, and what it involves after its been legally done?

I went to a lawyer who handled it for me. It was fairly straightforward. I filed paperwork stating that I wanted to change my name and I was not doing it to avoid prosecution or welch on debts or defraud anyone. Once the motion was filed with the court, a legal notice was published in a local newspaper for four weeks, I think. Then proof of publication was filed with the court, at which time the motion was granted and I got a certified copy of the motion from the court.

Once I had the certified documents, I went to the DMV, Social Security and the Passport offices, I think. I just showed them the paperwork, along with my current government ID and, voila, everything got put in my new last name. Of course, I was 18 at the time so it wasn't like a million credit cards or anything to change.


esse - Feb 03, 2006 4:51:04 pm PST #4860 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

I think it depends where you live, SA, and what you're changing it from/to.

The reason I ask is because I want to change my name from SA T. to SA A., taking my mother's surname. But I didn't know if, for example, I did it before I graduated college, whether I'd have to get my passport changed, my birth cert, driver's license, etc changed; and whether my new name would show up on my diploma. And how much it would cost, how much it would affect my life, etc.


esse - Feb 03, 2006 4:53:10 pm PST #4861 of 10002
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

cereal:

Thanks, Kristen, that's really helpful. Do you have to do it in your home state? And do you have to go through a lawyer?