Giles: Helping out with the dishes makes me feel useful. Dawn: Wanna clean out the garage with us Saturday? You could feel indispensable.

'Dirty Girls'


F2F 3: Who's Bringing the Guacamole?  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: San Francisco, May 19-21, 2006! Everything else, go here! Swag!


deborah grabien - May 08, 2006 7:11:21 am PDT #9406 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Couple of quick things:

1. I'm awaiting some info - and seeing whether we can set it up for two more people who want to attend, and whom we'd love to attend - before sending out a draft of the F2F Info Cheat-Sheet. My thinking at the moment is to send it out to everyone whose cellphone numbers I already have in the document, as follows:

Anne W, Kristin, NoiseDesign, Laura, Tommyrot, Nora & Tom, JZ, Jessica, _t, Teppy, Sparky, Ginger, Nicole, Pete & Jilli, Brenda M, ChiKat, Trudy, Vortex, Toddson, Polter-Cow, SailAweigh, SA, Kate P, Theodosia, juliana, Lee, DX, EpicTangent

That's obviously not the whole list of people coming - for one thing, it doesn't include the locals (except that juliana just told me to add her). If you don't see your name above, and want to either receive the list or add a number/arrival and departure info/BBQ or other event confirmation to it, please email me at the profile addy. I'll be sending this out probably on Wednesday of this week.

2. Monday 22 May is going to be a quietish day for me, since it'll be coming at the end of ten says of furious activity and the multiple sclerosis will almost certainly be cranky. But I'll probably be up for some nice mellow City-wandering, and will put a pasta dinner together for anyone who wants to come along an enjoy it. I don't need an RSVP for that - nice fluid plan. I'll just check with people at the weekend, get a rough headcount, and put together some food.


Theodosia - May 08, 2006 7:29:28 am PDT #9407 of 10001
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Insent to you, deb, and if I should forward some of the info therein to anyone else, I hope you'll let me know!

I really am so looking forward to this -- I like SF a whole lot, above and beyond the wonderful people I'll see there, and if all works out I should be able to do some significant things that I've never done before, like the Winchester House and the Monterey Aquarium. (I've made a 9:45 PM plane reservation for Monday in order to fit this is.)


Kate P. - May 08, 2006 7:31:10 am PDT #9408 of 10001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Deb, I sent you my phone number a couple of weeks back, but I don't see my name on that list. I've also sent you a few other emails with my arrival info and my RSVP for the BBQ; now I'm concerned that they haven't gone through. Can you tell me what information you still need from me? Thanks.


deborah grabien - May 08, 2006 7:46:01 am PDT #9409 of 10001
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

Kate, you're there - when I read the phone list though, your name was right at the bottom line and my damned Word config jumps three lines when I hit "page down". Must get Nic to fix that.

So yep, I got yours, accommodations and everything, and you're there. No worries.


Sean K - May 08, 2006 7:47:51 am PDT #9410 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Okay, it's official. S and I will be in San Jose for the weekend of the F2F, so one way or another, we'd like to find a moment to see some folks.

However, we are absolutely piss-poor broke right now, and a little concerned about June rent, so we can't really afford to attend prom. We're not even sure how we'll get into the city yet.

So, we may just stop by long enough to say hi to people, possibly Saturday night, or we may try and hit the BBQ, but that means we'll miss some folks. Mostly our schedule is up in the air, but we'll figure things out by then, and hopefully see some people.


Jessica - May 08, 2006 8:01:25 am PDT #9411 of 10001
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I don't want to speak for the group, but I don't personally view the Prom as a pay-to-play event. The $41pp (or whatever) is NOT a ticket price.


Trudy Booth - May 08, 2006 8:02:41 am PDT #9412 of 10001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I agree with Jessica.


SailAweigh - May 08, 2006 8:05:21 am PDT #9413 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I'm with Jessica. What's the point of Prom Fairies if their contributions aren't put to good use? I contributed money last year despite not being able to be there and it was meant to ensure everyone had a good time.


ChiKat - May 08, 2006 8:06:22 am PDT #9414 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

What they said. Especially this:

What's the point of Prom Fairies if their contributions aren't put to good use? I contributed money last year despite not being able to be there and it was meant to ensure everyone had a good time.

Me, too.


brenda m - May 08, 2006 8:08:46 am PDT #9415 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Totally. We fully expect to see you and S at prom, young man.