A thread to discuss naming threads, board policy, new thread suggestions, and anything else that has to do with board administration and maintenance. Guaranteed to include lively debate and polls. Natter discouraged, but not deleted.
Current Stompy Feet: ita, Jon B, DXMachina, P.M. Marcontell, Liese S., amych
I'm feeling Big Fished, I guess. without the lovely effect of seeing the beautiful Ewan.
That's EXACTLY the way I'm feeling--and you said it better, Kat.
I'm trying not to be militant in my desire to know the Truth. And the fact of the matter is, we may never know for sure. But this very civil conversation has helped me reach a point where I'm comfortable with my own beliefs even though we might not reach a concrete conclusion.
I want everyone to feel comfortable with that but others may need a little more. And I'm sure there are some that think this search is useless or off-kilter for a virtual community.
Middle ground seems fine to me, though.
Two points of reference:
1) Everybody should recruit a real, live older sister to the board, to verify one's existence. (Sister should not live someplace like Montana.)
2) You all remember that one time, back in like 2002, when a friend of mine didn't hear back from me via email (I was on a road trip) and looked up the Buffistas admins and emailed them to find out whether I was dead?
The Stompies were gracious and merely forwarded the email to me. But, it's funny in retrospect that one internet friend (whom I had met in person) emailed my other internet friends (whom I'd also met at that point) to verify my continuing state of livingness.
(Not that I had claimed I was dead.)
(I returned her email, sheepish, a week later.)
What about us is not solid, Cindy?
You all remember that one time, back in like 2002, when a friend of mine didn't hear back from me via email (I was on a road trip) and looked up the Buffistas admins and emailed them to find out whether I was dead?
Heh. When some of my Internet friends thought I might have died in the tsunami, they tracked down my home phone number from a college website and left a message on our answering machine, I guess in case someone was checking.
What I'm not feeling solid about is us.
Could you elaborate, Cindy?
It's funny, but in talking this experience over with a rl friend who has similar interests and such, I said that the one thing I am secure about is the structure and integrity of the group. Even with the dissent and wildly varying degrees of input/emotional involvement, the group itself seems solid as a rock.
t /ashford and simpson.
What feels unstable Cindy?
Also, it never occured to me that Fela wouldn't come here to say that I had passed...but the other rl friend said that she has no idea what her spouse does on the 'net and it wouldn't remotely occur to her.
Sure, but would we belive the Fella without an obit and a death certificate? He could be anybody.
Good news! Looks like there is a Social Security index of deaths in the nation. Oh joy! Now we can know at all times who is dead and who is not. The bad news is that we'll have to wait a couple of months to use it as it does not update instantly. How terribly insensitive of them!
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Pretty sure I don't have to elaborate, now.
ironic that insensitive was used. or maybe ironic is the wrong word.
