t hearting Jen for helping me carry the Sarah Brown torch

The One True Eve. Raise the light high!

I interrupt to point out how much I hate this criticism of Chosen. This was said to keep women from getting the vote, to keep them out of the pulpit and public office, and the workforce, and from having a drink in goddamn public, to keep them from getting birth control, yada yada yada.

Of course there are risks, but it's worse to keep power from people to whom it rightfully belongs.

t hearting Cindy big and deep

Have I mentioned what a praise whore I am? No. Well then, this is the perfect time.

On with the hearting of me, I say!

::Nibbles at Cindy's tasty brain::

(Do other boards express admiration via cannibalism?)

I don't think this was a perfect solution. I think it was the only solution, and has already done more harm than good, because in the doing, they were able to save the world.

Er, Cindy, didn't you mean more good than harm?

Don't confuse me with facts when I'm drinking a nice Merlot, Matt (or Bruce, as I almost called you--who is Bruce?).

Yes, thank you. I meant it the other way around.

(Do other boards express admiration via cannibalism?)

There are other boards?

Ah. Misunderstanding crossed with duh-ness on my party.

They don't have anything to get beyond (that we know of).

I understood this as getting beyond their problems, not getting beyond their coping mechanisms.

Or does the message of having the power to let go of the bullshit apply only to Buffy (who is of course the whole point of the show)?

Lyra Jane gave a list here of the Scoobies getting over each of their issues.

I would say that no, we don't know that these girls have "Well, at least I can/am ____" coping mechanisms that hold them back somehow, but Joss demonstrated that each of the Scoobies did. This gets into "We don't know that the girls didn't have "Special" issues, either." The show is about Buffy, but also about things we all go through.

And, now that I think about it, one of my friends tonight (offline) reminded me of one of my particular "I'm special" issues and how it harms me. Huh. This is the part where I hear Giles in my head saying "a synchronicity bordering on predestination..."

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A 'flutter' moment not mentioned, I think. When Tara and Willow joined hands and sent that drink machine slamming against the door.

Also, camera panning to reveal "Was it good for you?" scrawled in blood on the wall.

(puts hands up)

OK, I cede! I was pushing a little at some points of Plei's idea, in writing-workshop style, to make them stronger and hold up for a larger, less biased audience. I was doing this because I think she's got something good here, something worth thinking about and discussing. I'm not going to defend a stance I didn't take (that females should be kept down): I re-stated my position in my previous post, and it was still misunderstood. So I give up.

I'm also not attacking Plei, or Joss, or the show, just in case that was also misunderstood.

OK, I cede! I was pushing a little at some points of Plei's idea, in writing-workshop style, to make them stronger and hold up for a larger, less biased audience. I was doing this because I think she's got something good here, something worth thinking about and discussing. I'm not going to defend a stance I didn't take (that females should be kept down): I re-stated my position in my previous post, and it was still misunderstood. So I give up.

I didn't have much of a response (because I was at work, and therefore braindead) at the time, but I still don't expect the metaphor to map exactly. I mean, given the time and desire to expand it beyond Buffy herself (and I think can be extended to Xander and Willow, but explicitly *NOT* to Spike, which is a story for another thread), I could, but, to be frank, the montage o' female empowerment wouldn't be something I touched on in anything more than an exploring-it-as-symbolism way. (In which case, I'd just say what Micole said about the sharing of power.)

This is partly because, wank or no, S7 still leaves me somewhat cold, and I'd have to rewatch large portions of it when I have other things I'd rather be doing. It's also partly because, as I said, show not called Scoobie Gang, or Potentials, show called Buffy, and so while no, it doesn't only apply to Buffy, she's still the most important POV of the show.