What you did to me was unbelievable, Connor. But then I got stuck in a hell dimension by my girlfriend one time for a hundred years, so three months under the ocean actually gave me perspective. Kind of a M.C. Escher perspective, but I did get time to think.

Angel ,'Conviction (1)'


Buffy 4: Grr. Arrgh.  

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Vortex - Jul 29, 2003 11:30:48 am PDT #3817 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Except for the assholes who say "why won't you go out with me"


amych - Jul 29, 2003 11:36:27 am PDT #3818 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

"why won't you go out with me"

"Well, for starters, you're asking that question..."


Cindy - Jul 29, 2003 11:37:47 am PDT #3819 of 10001
Nobody

Except for the assholes who say "why won't you go out with me"

Thank you, but, no thank you.

Really. That's all you say. I had it down pat by 17. It even works. Miss Manners is right with this one.


Vortex - Jul 29, 2003 11:39:03 am PDT #3820 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

"Well, for starters, you're asking that question..."

I usually responded with something like "Well, you don't seem to know how to take no for an answer, which does not bode well."


Daisy Jane - Jul 29, 2003 11:40:07 am PDT #3821 of 10001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

How about if he'd returned feelings, but refused to act on them due to his existing obligations? Y'know, due to him being all noble and shit.

I would say he's probably still have lost his shininess, because I liked that he was all lovey with his wife. Of course now I kinda think my crush wasn't so much on that particular guy, but maybe just that kind of guy.


Katie M - Jul 29, 2003 11:50:43 am PDT #3822 of 10001
I was charmed (albeit somewhat perplexed) by the fannish sensibility of many of the music choices -- it's like the director was trying to vid Canada. --loligo on the Olympic Opening Ceremonies

I usually responded with something like "Well, you don't seem to know how to take no for an answer, which does not bode well."

Snerk. There's a guy in my office I keep wanting to say that to. I mean, his reply to "socializing one-on-one with you makes me uncomfortable, and I don't think that's fixable" was "I think it is fixable! Here are some suggestions." Uh, no, see, you're increasing the uncomfortable there. Not helping!

(Obligatory disclaimer: I've done plenty of Stupid Relationship Things in my life too, God knows.)


Jenny_G - Jul 29, 2003 11:53:07 am PDT #3823 of 10001
One eye out for highway danger, the other out for fruit. - fr. Martin Mull's Truckdrivin' Songs for the Eight Basic Food Groups

I don't know that I get the 'not ready' part of the Xander and Buffy equation

Uh - yeah. I actually meant to write

she wasn't sure she was interested in a relationship with him - in fact was pretty clear that she WASN'T interested.

but I was so busy making it parallel with what I'd written about Spike that I messed up. Mea culpa and all that. I went back and edited it.


Jenny_G - Jul 29, 2003 11:55:08 am PDT #3824 of 10001
One eye out for highway danger, the other out for fruit. - fr. Martin Mull's Truckdrivin' Songs for the Eight Basic Food Groups

I mean, his reply to "socializing one-on-one with you makes me uncomfortable, and I don't think that's fixable" was "I think it is fixable! Here are some suggestions."

I think that's the reason Miss Manners says not to give reasons. People argue with reasons. Pretty hard to argue with a stone wall that just keeps saying, "No, that's not possible."


Sean K - Jul 29, 2003 12:09:41 pm PDT #3825 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

People argue with reasons.

Yes. Exactly. It was reasons that allowed me lie to myself and think that I could argue my way into a relationship.


Vortex - Jul 29, 2003 12:15:02 pm PDT #3826 of 10001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I think that's the reason Miss Manners says not to give reasons. People argue with reasons.

exactly. but my little answer seemed to shut them up. On the rare occasions that i was actually asked on a date, that is. I seem to have the "hang out a lot and fall into a relationship" thing. I don't know if I've ever had a real date.