Jeebus, I'm turning into a sap in these late days. Launch is currently playing me a very bad 13-minute live version of "Free Bird", which is something I'd normally hit the ban button on before it was even done buffering -- but every time I go to do so, I think "butbutbutbut Giles played that song."

And then I get a little sniffly. Especially when I realize that Giles did it much better. And not for 13 minutes.

would it be wrong of me to want to marry hayden at this point? This has summed up the problems I've had with the show. I still love it...but there is disappointment...much like my family.

Woo hoo! Except my wife would probably object.

I made my point at the end of the last Buffy thread about why it's ok for people to consider some works of art as better than others in the context of Western culture. I think my point still holds water.

And then I get a little sniffly. Especially when I realize that Giles did it much better. And not for 13 minutes.

Imagine how great a 13 minute ASH version would be. I bet you'd listen to that whole thing.

I made my point at the end of the last Buffy thread about why it's ok for people to consider some works of art as better than others in the context of Western culture. I think my point still holds water.

Oh, like a well, baby.

Like a freaking well.

Mentioning failures (i.e. things that didn't work for someone) is different from (and less severe a criticism than) labeling the season, the series, the writers or even a specific episode as having failed (implicit in that term is the concept of failure as a whole). I think people have pretty much expressed mixed feelings on both concept and execution. They've expressed dissatisfaction with elements (e.g. too much tell in the show/tell ratio). I don't see any acknowledgement of that difference in your posts.

Then I can only say that I either failed to make myself clear or you misread me (or both). But I'm not sure I can explain myself any better than I have. (But maybe what follows will help.)

Three: Since I don't like something it is bad. If it is bad it represents a failure on the part of the writers (or actors, directors etc.). Conjecture is then offered on why they did a bad job: they have senioritis, Joss is not involved enough, Joss is too involved, it's Marti's fault, JM is overacting etc..

You go on to disparage this type of opinion posting. I'm sorry, but you are very wrong here. You seem to be saying that it's wrong for a person to look for the reasons why he/she feels something went wrong on the episode.

Not exactly no. It depends how it is presented. The thing is, if the debate is framed as "We all agree this sucks so let's debate why" then those of us who don't think it sucks are automatically excluded, and end up standing on the side going, "But...but..."

Well, if we can praise a writer for doing something right that we liked, than we can criticize a writer for doing something wrong that we disliked.

I don't disagree-it does work both ways. But people are much more likely (I find) to emphasize the subjective nature of their views when praising than when being harshly critical.

And on a related point, I also find that the conjecture on what went wrong often seems to be grounded in nothing in particular. What is the evidence (for example) the writers are slacking off like seniors at the end of high school as someone suggested? Well, that the season isn't as good as previous seasons. But that converts a subjective opinion (this season isn't as good) into an objective fact (the evidence for senioritis). It is a logical bait and switch-to go Python, "It don't work."

Likewise, we can probably agree that it is better to show than to tell, but we are still left with a subjective judgement which constitutes which. If I read subtext into a speech that reveals a layer not directly expressed in the words, that is an example of "showing" but if you don't then for you it becomes "telling." Which of us is right?

All of which is fair game until I'm told that I don't understand the difference between showing and telling, or if I do that I must have a higher tolerance for telling. Or in general if I like this season I must not mind sloppy writing. It couldn't be I have a different view of what constitutes sloppy? Maybe I WAS told rather than shown Spike's evolution this season. Maybe-but maybe I'm right in my views and the other person is wrong. I don't mind disagreement at all-but I do insist on being left enough room to stand on. And in some FEW cases I didn't feel that was being granted (not to me specifically, but to those of us who are mostly enjoying the season).

It is also quite possible in the heat of argument I didn't grant others room to stand on-in which I was equally wrong and apologize (as I already did specifically with Allyson).

Wolfram--I agree with one part of what Ted said. When students critique each other's work in my writing class, I make a clear distinction between the writer's story and their story. In other words, you may have wanted the character to do X or the writer to explore X, but that's not what the writer wanted. Your job is to try to understand the story the writer wants to tell and whether they succeeded and to offer comments based on that. It's not easy to do but the writer has to own their own story and that ownership needs to be respected. Criticism based on "what I would do" is more often than not, unhelpful. I see a lot of that on these boards and it's not good critique. People can get heated and rather doctrinaire, myself included. That being said, this ISN'T a writer's group, it's a discussion board, and so opinion which might be bad critique makes perfectly useful and thought-provoking disussion. It seems to me this is the perfect place for opinions of all sorts to be thrown out there and we need to back off a bit from each other when we disagree.

You go on to disparage this type of opinion posting. I'm sorry, but you are very wrong here. You seem to be saying that it's wrong for a person to look for the reasons why he/she feels something went wrong on the episode.

Not exactly no. It depends how it is presented. The thing is, if the debate is framed as "We all agree this sucks so let's debate why" then those of us who don't think it sucks are automatically excluded, and end up standing on the side going, "But...but..."

I'm not sure that presentation is something you can dictate. You are welcome to disagree with the person who says "We all agree" by saying that you don't agree. But that's really as far as you can go. I'm starting to see why you'd be frustrated because of a conversation like that, but I don't see any alternative other than not responding to those posts past that you don't agree with the premise. You can't tell people not to share opinions of dislike and debate the causes. Unless you have a suggestion for how this should be presented?

It seems to me this is the perfect place for opinions of all sorts to be thrown out there and we need to back off a bit from each other when we disagree.

Wrod.

I'm not sure that presentation is something you can dictate.

It isn't. I can point it out, explain my objections, but I wouldn't presume to dictate even if I had the power to do so.

Or...what Scrappy said. :)

Everybody needs to see the latest Dork Tower cartoon - it shows a fan's reaction to the ending of Buffy.

Bwah! Jeff - - that was priceless.