Ugh, Jess. Thank you for speaking up. My jaw was hanging open reading that.
Count me among the those who found his behavior creepy in person and online, but thought I was the only one.
Mal: Yeah, well, just be careful. We cheated Badger out of good money to buy that frippery, and you're supposed to make me look respectable. Kaylee: Yes, sir, Captain Tightpants.
'Shindig'
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smonster - Oct 15, 2016 5:07:36 pm PDT #9823 of 10289
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Jessica - Oct 15, 2016 5:11:36 pm PDT #9824 of 10289
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset
There was some backchanneling. When nobody called him out on the creepy board post, I didn't want to cause a scene.
smonster - Oct 15, 2016 5:15:09 pm PDT #9825 of 10289
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Well, we are trained not to cause a scene, to get along, to doubt our instincts.
shrift - Oct 15, 2016 5:19:53 pm PDT #9826 of 10289
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty
Greetings from Melbourne, y'all. This is not how I wanted to check in on B.org, but it is what it is.
Thank you for posting that, Jessica.
I also find this deeply upsetting, but I've had enough conversations with Buffistas off the board to be in favor.
DCJensen - Oct 15, 2016 5:22:04 pm PDT #9827 of 10289
All is well that ends in pizza.
I'm a bit gobsmacked myself. I like to think I can spot someone with these behaviors.
Maybe even wondering if I have been recalling a younger more reticent PC, and just projected that.
I know I've been in and out the last couple of years, but I think of the Buffistas as home ground. No one is above reproach for hurting others.
Kat - Oct 15, 2016 5:34:26 pm PDT #9828 of 10289
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
Jessica, I'm sorry and, like others, i'm sorry you went through it alone. I wish we were better about calling things out; I know I'm guilty of MARCIE-ing, skimming, ignoring.
sarameg - Oct 15, 2016 5:41:36 pm PDT #9829 of 10289
Jessica, I'm sorry you had to deal with that (and same to anyone else out there who also did) and I'm with y'all. Not interested in him as a part of this community.
amyth - Oct 15, 2016 5:46:14 pm PDT #9830 of 10289
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
Jessica, thank you for posting. I'm sorry, too, that we didn't have your back when it happened.
Kate P. - Oct 15, 2016 5:52:17 pm PDT #9831 of 10289
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
I'm sorry, too, that we didn't have your back when it happened.
Yes, I am too.
erikaj - Oct 15, 2016 5:56:42 pm PDT #9832 of 10289
Always Anti-fascist!
i thought he was joking, and once I decide that I'm not someone's fan, it can get a little over-zealous...didn't want to be That Girl.