I like the idea that the warning goes as soon as 10 is reached. If that is 10 minutes, then so be it, if it takes all 48 hours because it's a weekend or holiday or my birthday or somesuch, then that is cool too. But no 10 by 48 hours 1 minute and tough titties, no warning at that moment as a result of the instance or build up of instances brought up.
msbelle, I like this.
Depends on how seriously you see a warning. The fact that it's one warning and then a suspension is what makes me feel nervous about this.
Warnings only happen when people are called on something and don't settle it themselves, in fact, refuse to settle it themselves, so this doesn't bother me.
Frankly, yes. Because the second thing would have been followed with inthread corrections and the whole 9 too. That's a pattern of disrespectful behavior IMO.
Right, okay. I wasn't trying to argue whether that was a good or a bad thing, actually, just trying to make clear that someone could indeed refrain from doing whatever got them warned and still get booted.
Yeah, it's my call, but I want opinions.
Well then, to restate, I don't want time limits added to this vote, because I want a process first.
I get you Katie. I'm glad you brought it up, because it made me think about it, and I hadn't before.
Galdalfe, how do you think you would have responded if you were confronted about one of your pissy posts in thread?(maybe this happened and I am unaware).
IIRC, I bitched back more, explained what I meant, and we all went on with it. Wasn't one of those in this very thread? May have been.
But, Gandalfe, it's not a walking-on-eggshells period. It's an Acting Right period. You can see that we, as a group, do not have a tendency to jump on people for every little thing.
But, for the person who it's happening to, assuming that they want to remain part of this community, it will feel like having to walk on eggshells, never knowing if saying one thing wrong will get them kicked out.
Well then, to restate, I don't want time limits added to this vote, because I want a process first.
If time limits seem like they're going to be a sticky place, I'm siding with Heather on this. The process is really more important.
Cindy, you devilish numberslut!
If time limits seem like they're going to be a sticky place, I'm siding with Heather on this.
If it's going to be a killer, then we can wait, by all means. In fact, yeah, maybe we should. As long as we get that done SHORTLY after this vote is finished.
You can propose it in B. for the next discussion and vote, right?
It probably is at least worth discussing.
But, for the person who it's happening to, assuming that they want to remain part of this community, it will feel like having to walk on eggshells, never knowing if saying one thing wrong will get them kicked out.
Honestly, if it's that hard for this hypothetical person not to anger large groups of people that they feel as if they're "walking on eggshells" to avoid it, I don't think 6 months or 2 months will make a difference.