But, Gandalfe, it's not a walking-on-eggshells period. It's an Acting Right period. You can see that we, as a group, do not have a tendency to jump on people for every little thing.
Murk: But you're a God! The Sacred Glorificus! Glory: I'm a God in exile. Far from the Hellfires of Home and sharing my body with an enemy that stabs my boys in their fleshy little stomachs!
'Dirty Girls'
Voting Discussion: We're Screwing In Light Bulbs AIFG!
We open it up, we talks the talk, we votes, we shuts it down. This thread is to free up Bureaucracy for daily details as we hammer out the Big Issues towards a vote. Open only when a proposal has been made and seconded according to Buffista policy (Which we voted on!). If this thread is closed, hie thee to Bureaucracy instead!
Jesse - Apr 14, 2003 5:47:29 pm PDT #660 of 10289
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
amyth - Apr 14, 2003 5:51:05 pm PDT #661 of 10289
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
it's not a walking-on-eggshells period. It's an Acting Right period.
Yes, this. Why is that so much to ask, especially after all the prior steps and discussion?
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 5:52:34 pm PDT #662 of 10289
Nobody
I like the idea that the warning goes as soon as 10 is reached. If that is 10 minutes, then so be it, if it takes all 48 hours because it's a weekend or holiday or my birthday or somesuch, then that is cool too. But no 10 by 48 hours 1 minute and tough titties, no warning at that moment as a result of the instance or build up of instances brought up.
msbelle, I like this.
Depends on how seriously you see a warning. The fact that it's one warning and then a suspension is what makes me feel nervous about this.
Warnings only happen when people are called on something and don't settle it themselves, in fact, refuse to settle it themselves, so this doesn't bother me.
Katie M - Apr 14, 2003 5:52:39 pm PDT #663 of 10289
I was charmed (albeit somewhat perplexed) by the fannish sensibility of many of the music choices -- it's like the director was trying to vid Canada. --loligo on the Olympic Opening Ceremonies
Frankly, yes. Because the second thing would have been followed with inthread corrections and the whole 9 too. That's a pattern of disrespectful behavior IMO.
Right, okay. I wasn't trying to argue whether that was a good or a bad thing, actually, just trying to make clear that someone could indeed refrain from doing whatever got them warned and still get booted.
Daisy Jane - Apr 14, 2003 5:52:46 pm PDT #664 of 10289
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Yeah, it's my call, but I want opinions.
Well then, to restate, I don't want time limits added to this vote, because I want a process first.
Daisy Jane - Apr 14, 2003 5:53:57 pm PDT #665 of 10289
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I get you Katie. I'm glad you brought it up, because it made me think about it, and I hadn't before.
Gandalfe - Apr 14, 2003 5:54:02 pm PDT #666 of 10289
The generation that could change the world is still looking for its car keys.
Galdalfe, how do you think you would have responded if you were confronted about one of your pissy posts in thread?(maybe this happened and I am unaware).
IIRC, I bitched back more, explained what I meant, and we all went on with it. Wasn't one of those in this very thread? May have been.
But, Gandalfe, it's not a walking-on-eggshells period. It's an Acting Right period. You can see that we, as a group, do not have a tendency to jump on people for every little thing.
But, for the person who it's happening to, assuming that they want to remain part of this community, it will feel like having to walk on eggshells, never knowing if saying one thing wrong will get them kicked out.
Cindy - Apr 14, 2003 5:54:44 pm PDT #667 of 10289
Nobody
Well then, to restate, I don't want time limits added to this vote, because I want a process first.
If time limits seem like they're going to be a sticky place, I'm siding with Heather on this. The process is really more important.
amyth - Apr 14, 2003 5:56:25 pm PDT #668 of 10289
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
Cindy, you devilish numberslut!
Gandalfe - Apr 14, 2003 5:57:52 pm PDT #669 of 10289
The generation that could change the world is still looking for its car keys.
If time limits seem like they're going to be a sticky place, I'm siding with Heather on this.
If it's going to be a killer, then we can wait, by all means. In fact, yeah, maybe we should. As long as we get that done SHORTLY after this vote is finished.