Mal: That's not what I saw. You like to tell me what really happened? Book: I surely would. And maybe someday I will.

'Safe'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jul 08, 2025 9:46:27 pm PDT #8208 of 8594
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Surprised at the OED being behind the times. That’s not really a reasonable reaction for me to have, probably, but I’m having it


-t - Jul 08, 2025 9:47:06 pm PDT #8209 of 8594
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Sorry for the difficulties, Sheryl. Best wishes for the birthday


Laura - Jul 09, 2025 4:56:25 am PDT #8210 of 8594
Our wings are not tired.

Today is sarameg's birthday! I haven't seen her around these parts in some time, but she may be a lurking lurker who lurks. In any case, I hope it is a delightful day and send wishes into the universe for a wonderful year.


-t - Jul 09, 2025 7:10:22 am PDT #8211 of 8594
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Happy sarameg day!


-t - Jul 09, 2025 7:15:56 am PDT #8212 of 8594
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Felt like this needed to be a separate post. There’s a garbage strike over by Stockton that some of our local collectors are supporting in a way that is disrupting the usual collection schedule a little bit. I find this exciting - don’t see much in the way of collective action in these parts! And my garbage was picked up just fine on Monday so I’m not directly affected and wouldn’t be greatly inconvenienced if I am, really, so it’s easy for me to benevolently observe


erikaj - Jul 09, 2025 1:39:01 pm PDT #8213 of 8594
Always Anti-fascist!

Happy birthday to Sarameg if she's lurking. If I counted up how much time I spent proving Permanent Condition is Permanent, I would probably get really sad. Especially, since after sometime close to three decades, it's probably enough for the Australian vacation I can't go on for the same reason. Sigh.


JenP - Jul 09, 2025 3:03:20 pm PDT #8214 of 8594

Happy Birthday to sarameg! May you receive the feeling of good wishes coming through the interwebs even if you don't see these specific pixels.


askye - Jul 09, 2025 4:30:59 pm PDT #8215 of 8594
Thrive to spite them

Happy Birthday sarameg!


askye - Jul 09, 2025 4:50:44 pm PDT #8216 of 8594
Thrive to spite them

Dad is doing good at the hospital. They have kept him for observation. He has moved up from a clear liquid diet to just a liquid diet so tonight he got chocolate pudding with is apple juice and bouillon.

I have the official diagnosis of Barrett's esophagus, which is damage to the esophagus from acid. The silent reflux did some damage. All I was told to do until my appointment was to keep taking the medicine but of course I went to see what I should do and not eat.

And it's a lot-- fatty foods, fried foods, spicy foods, onion and garlic (I already knew they were an issue with the gas /bloating and stomach spasms), dairy , caffeine , mint, carbonated beverages, acidic foods, chocolate

In addition from the Low FODMAP elimination I've discovered that cruciferous veggies, grapes, sweet pott, white potatoes, and beans (including green beans) are triggers. I haven't experimented with too many fruits. Apples in small amounts seem to be ok.

So I've been struggling with what to eat. It's going to take a lot more planning . I've done the super low acid diet before but I didn't have to avoid fried or fatty foods or dairy which made it easier.

Plus I have to figure out what to do for dinner so M doesn't have to eat the same things I do. I'm hoping this will only be for a short term and not forever.

And when I went looking online for advice I kept finding people cheerfully saying drinking cabbage juice is really healing and it's something people should drink every day. I don't want to drink cabbage juice ever. It sounds so unappealing.


DavidS - Jul 09, 2025 9:01:24 pm PDT #8217 of 8594
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

So I've been struggling with what to eat.

Trader Joe has sou vide chicken thighs that are not fried nor fatty, and are pretty tasty as a quick protein. Can you eat noodles or rice or bread? I'm trying to think what vegetables you could eat. Peas? Lettuce? Spinach?