Mal: Okay. She won't be winning any beauty contests anytime soon. But she is solid. Ship like this, be with ya 'til the day you die. Zoe: 'Cause it's a deathtrap.

'Out Of Gas'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.

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dcp - Mar 18, 2025 11:21:43 am PDT #6282 of 6290
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

scared the hell out of me

Yeah. I can laugh about it now, but at my first visit with my oncologist, when she introduced herself with "I'm a palliative care specialist," I was stunned. I like to think I didn't show my panic externally, but internally my first thought was, "I didn't think I was *that* bad off! I'm not ready for hospice!" It took quite some time to get over that shock, and learn the difference.


DavidS - Mar 18, 2025 11:25:21 am PDT #6283 of 6290
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Very sweet reminiscence of Michelle.

Though I got a jolt when I realized her childhood friend Reeve Carney was Dorian Gray on Penny Dreadful!


Trudy Booth - Mar 18, 2025 11:30:12 am PDT #6284 of 6290
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Yeah, palliative care called me about mom and I was all... "Which call is this?"

It was planning the eventual transition from treatment to palliative care and making decisions for a later date... not the later date.


Dana - Mar 18, 2025 12:10:19 pm PDT #6285 of 6290
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Though I got a jolt when I realized her childhood friend Reeve Carney was Dorian Gray on Penny Dreadful!

I had the same thought process, except "was the guy from Hadestown."


DavidS - Mar 18, 2025 4:06:54 pm PDT #6286 of 6290
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Just got off a call with the scheduler at the Pilates studio, Claire (she's also a part owner).

It was going to be a half hour call, but I gave the back story on Jacqueline and we wound up having a really nice hour long discussion. I'm getting the feeling that I'm not just getting a place to work out, but a community with some space for friendship as well.

Also, it's really going to help structure my week and my days, which has been an issue for me since Matilda graduated from HS.


-t - Mar 18, 2025 4:34:12 pm PDT #6287 of 6290
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Very good! Structure and community can both be hard to build up


Sophia Brooks - Mar 18, 2025 7:33:09 pm PDT #6288 of 6290
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

That sounds really awesome, David. You are such a community bringer I think it will be nice to have a live community that you are not in charge of bringing the community- you can be a receiver a little bit.


-t - Mar 18, 2025 9:10:06 pm PDT #6289 of 6290
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I successfully groceried at Costco and Raley’s and also got gas on the way home and I think I might be able to not spend any more money until the end of the month. I’m a little light on breakfasty things, but I can probably get by eating less specific food a few mornings. Should have enough cat food, which is the actual necessity


DavidS - Mar 18, 2025 9:57:23 pm PDT #6290 of 6290
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

You are such a community bringer I think it will be nice to have a live community that you are not in charge of bringing the community- you can be a receiver a little bit.

Awww, sweetly said.

Structure and community can both be hard to build up

Very true. I was a little spoiled when I moved to SF to be accepted into a circle of friends (which is where I met Marti the Medical Student).

Then later I spent a good 15-20 years without having any close friends physically nearby (though I was married with children, so I wasn't alone).

But it's something I preach all the time - proximity matters.


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