You got fired, and you still hang around here like a big loser. Why can't he?

Cordelia ,'Chosen'


Natter 78: I might need to watch some Buffy for inspiration

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Oct 23, 2024 11:09:00 am PDT #3055 of 4161
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm really missing JZ today and her unique brand of kind wisdom.


erikaj - Oct 23, 2024 2:54:06 pm PDT #3056 of 4161
Always Anti-fascist!

Sometimes I'm surprised at what makes me think of her. Sometimes I expect it, like "Gum would be perfection."


-t - Oct 24, 2024 8:44:31 am PDT #3057 of 4161
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Y'all! I am wearing one red shoe and one black shoe (both flats, and similarish styles) and I had NO IDEA until a coworker mentioned it in the kitchen and I looked down at my feet. I'm not sure if this is a new low or an achievement unlocked sort of situation, but it's something.


dcp - Oct 24, 2024 9:00:28 am PDT #3058 of 4161
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Nah, worse would be if you got the chirality wrong.


-t - Oct 24, 2024 9:18:47 am PDT #3059 of 4161
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I probably would have noticed that before getting very far. Probably.


Steph L. - Oct 24, 2024 9:37:46 am PDT #3060 of 4161
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Call it a deliberate fashion choice and just go with it.

I have a pile of onerousness that has landed on me today, and I just feel like all the onerous tasks could be spread out through the week. I have to: (1) see the dentist later because my dental implant (which doesn't have a crown yet) is poking through my gum a little, and that just doesn't seem right; (2) wrangle insurance nonsense for the bill from when I went to urgent care in Colorado; (3) manage all of the pre-op stuff for my dad's surgery next week (standard prostate stuff for an elderly man), because he doesn't read any of the mail they send him, and/or he assumes that the instructions don't apply to him (yes, Dad, when they tell you to get a pre-op physical, you need to actually do that, not just say "I've been feeling pretty good lately, so I don't need to do that," or they will cancel your surgery, you dumbass).

And then, you know, regular work on top of all of that. It's a bit much.


Steph L. - Oct 24, 2024 9:41:17 am PDT #3061 of 4161
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Also, I am thisclose to having lost 20 pounds (yay!), and my Covid weight-gain jeans do literally fall off me when they're buttoned and zipper, but my pre-Covid jeans still don't fit well (I can technically button and zip them, but they are tight). I'm not really a leggings gal, so since the weather is getting cooler, I apparently am just going to wear joggers everywhere.


dcp - Oct 24, 2024 9:46:18 am PDT #3062 of 4161
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

manage all of the pre-op stuff for my dad's surgery

Steph, also consider making preparations, and preparing *him*, for post-op care and aftercare needs.


Steph L. - Oct 24, 2024 9:49:04 am PDT #3063 of 4161
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Steph, also consider making preparations, and preparing *him*, for post-op care and aftercare needs.

Oh yeah, I do have all the info that the pre-op nurse sent through MyChart, including things like wear sweatpants, not fitted pants, because he will want comfy pants after the surgery. Also info on what he can expect as he recovers. We'll go over all of that this weekend.


-t - Oct 24, 2024 11:00:27 am PDT #3064 of 4161
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Call it a deliberate fashion choice and just go with it.

That's my plan, but I had to share my actual mortification somewhere safe.

That is a lot of onerousness all hitting at once, Tep. Good luck with your dad