That's disturbing. You're emotionally scarred and will end up badly.

Anya ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 10:27:48 am PDT #9553 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That is a bummer, lisah. Leg~ma! But what is this about the first day of your unemployment? I feel like I have missed a piece of news.

I am on the first day of not knowing what the hell my job is anymore and it's going about like I expected. My one coworker who was supposed to be out on sick leave got her surgery postponed because her surgeon had a death in the family so she's now planning on working this week (although not today because she's got to reschedule her life and that TOTALLY MAKES SENSE if I were her I would be taking off more than just today, probably) which will likely make things easier for me in the short term (mostly it's just such a bizarre situation to come up - clearly nobody's fault or anything but so weird)


Laura - Sep 27, 2021 11:37:42 am PDT #9554 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Leg~ma lisah!

Yes, it was a nice surprise to have a calm rational "normal" conversation about the vaccine.


lisah - Sep 27, 2021 12:38:46 pm PDT #9555 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

But what is this about the first day of your unemployment? I feel like I have missed a piece of news.

I haven't talked about it a ton but my company fully integrated with our parent company last week and my role was eliminated. I have a fair amount of severance and Bob just started a new job with health benefits so I have some time and flexibility to find something new. Plus my company has been hemorrhaging talent for the past 6 months ahead of this integration and I've now got great contacts all over. So fingers crossed for a great new opportunity soon (but not too soon)!


-t - Sep 27, 2021 12:42:39 pm PDT #9556 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, wow! Fingers crossed indeed. I do hope you can enjoy some leisure time meanwhile!


Laura - Sep 27, 2021 1:44:05 pm PDT #9557 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

New~exciting~opportunity~ma! Sounds like ideal timing for a change.


DavidS - Sep 27, 2021 1:46:45 pm PDT #9558 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Getting laid off is never really fun, but that sounds like an excellent circumstance for you, lisah. Wishing you leg-ma and a good break from the workaday world.

Little side note about Matilda's birthday: Since we weren't hosting a party or anything, and she was just meeting up with twelve friends I gave Matilda $60 and told her to treat her friends to ice cream.

Because they're San Francisco kids, they opted instead to get Dim Sum pork dumplings which they ate in GG Park.


Sparky1 - Sep 27, 2021 1:50:18 pm PDT #9559 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Good (take your time) luck, lisah!

Askye, I'm sorry.

We have no countries that will take us based on ancestry. On my mother's side, we go back to the 1600's, and on the side hippocampus and I share, the immigrant is a sketchy character who arrived, fathered a son and promptly died in Andersonville, having ditched the wife and leaving the son with people he may, or may not have been related to. Post Civil War, Hippocampus and I didn't have a male relative over the age of 13 who survived, as my father begins a lecture well known to his daughters.

Work really stinks lately, so I have been filling my brain with thoughts of early retirement.


Sheryl - Sep 27, 2021 2:17:45 pm PDT #9560 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Mr. S had a meltdown at school this morning and Gary had to go pick him up. Luckily, he had taken the day off work. Mr. S had been doing really well so far this school year, so hopefully it was just a bad day.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 2:37:54 pm PDT #9561 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Heh. The Civil War is a good example of the obscurity of my ancestors - my mom was sure she would find some kind of military record for some relative or other because there were certainly family members around at the time but no, they all escaped (being documented, anyway).

My grandfather's mother, possibly pregnant with my grandfather, left her children with a neighbor when she left her first husband. First husband is listed on my grandfather's birth certificate as the father, which has become the official accepted truth, but I don't find that super convincing. This is the same accepted truth that holds that great-grandma and her second husband never lived together unmarried although first husband did not immediately die and they were never divorced and she certainly went directly to second husband (who adopted my grandfather, so it's just a question of how exactly to draw the family tree) so how does that work? Anyway, Grandpa was born in California, the generation before him in Italy, which I think is too far back to benefit me.

Aside from constantly needing to ask myself "is this my account? Is this something I need to know? Is this something I need to do?" about everything that comes up, work has not been too bad today. I'll take that as a win.


askye - Sep 27, 2021 3:26:47 pm PDT #9562 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Thanks everyone. I briefly spoke to the HR manager and she said they'd make things work out and make adjustments as needed.

I'm tired, Sunday was another day with a lot of lifting and moving things. But this morning various managers were walking around , I guess our store manager is looking at moving things or making changes for Xmas (I'm not sure) and I was going to get some stuff and one of the assistant managers I was helping yesterday and she made a comment to the store manager about how I was her MVP for yesterday.