I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 12:42:39 pm PDT #9556 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, wow! Fingers crossed indeed. I do hope you can enjoy some leisure time meanwhile!


Laura - Sep 27, 2021 1:44:05 pm PDT #9557 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

New~exciting~opportunity~ma! Sounds like ideal timing for a change.


DavidS - Sep 27, 2021 1:46:45 pm PDT #9558 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Getting laid off is never really fun, but that sounds like an excellent circumstance for you, lisah. Wishing you leg-ma and a good break from the workaday world.

Little side note about Matilda's birthday: Since we weren't hosting a party or anything, and she was just meeting up with twelve friends I gave Matilda $60 and told her to treat her friends to ice cream.

Because they're San Francisco kids, they opted instead to get Dim Sum pork dumplings which they ate in GG Park.


Sparky1 - Sep 27, 2021 1:50:18 pm PDT #9559 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Good (take your time) luck, lisah!

Askye, I'm sorry.

We have no countries that will take us based on ancestry. On my mother's side, we go back to the 1600's, and on the side hippocampus and I share, the immigrant is a sketchy character who arrived, fathered a son and promptly died in Andersonville, having ditched the wife and leaving the son with people he may, or may not have been related to. Post Civil War, Hippocampus and I didn't have a male relative over the age of 13 who survived, as my father begins a lecture well known to his daughters.

Work really stinks lately, so I have been filling my brain with thoughts of early retirement.


Sheryl - Sep 27, 2021 2:17:45 pm PDT #9560 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Mr. S had a meltdown at school this morning and Gary had to go pick him up. Luckily, he had taken the day off work. Mr. S had been doing really well so far this school year, so hopefully it was just a bad day.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 2:37:54 pm PDT #9561 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Heh. The Civil War is a good example of the obscurity of my ancestors - my mom was sure she would find some kind of military record for some relative or other because there were certainly family members around at the time but no, they all escaped (being documented, anyway).

My grandfather's mother, possibly pregnant with my grandfather, left her children with a neighbor when she left her first husband. First husband is listed on my grandfather's birth certificate as the father, which has become the official accepted truth, but I don't find that super convincing. This is the same accepted truth that holds that great-grandma and her second husband never lived together unmarried although first husband did not immediately die and they were never divorced and she certainly went directly to second husband (who adopted my grandfather, so it's just a question of how exactly to draw the family tree) so how does that work? Anyway, Grandpa was born in California, the generation before him in Italy, which I think is too far back to benefit me.

Aside from constantly needing to ask myself "is this my account? Is this something I need to know? Is this something I need to do?" about everything that comes up, work has not been too bad today. I'll take that as a win.


askye - Sep 27, 2021 3:26:47 pm PDT #9562 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Thanks everyone. I briefly spoke to the HR manager and she said they'd make things work out and make adjustments as needed.

I'm tired, Sunday was another day with a lot of lifting and moving things. But this morning various managers were walking around , I guess our store manager is looking at moving things or making changes for Xmas (I'm not sure) and I was going to get some stuff and one of the assistant managers I was helping yesterday and she made a comment to the store manager about how I was her MVP for yesterday.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 4:34:58 pm PDT #9563 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I’m glad they want to work with you on any time off you will need, askye, and so pleased they appreciate your work!


JZ - Sep 27, 2021 10:01:29 pm PDT #9564 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Update on 15: Matilda has been on FaceTime with a boy for the last two hours. We are not permitted in her room, but we can hear her talking and talking and laughing like a loon.


meara - Sep 28, 2021 10:34:07 am PDT #9565 of 30000

Oooh a BOY. She should be glad this is no longer the era of corded phones and having to talk in the kitchen or whatever where your whole family could hear (and also yell at you to hang up so they could use the phone)

My power is supposed to go out today. They said 9-5, but so far 1030 and I still have power. But I see a truck behind my house so I’m guessing this time it’ll actually happen, unlike last time.