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Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Sep 27, 2021 2:17:45 pm PDT #9560 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Mr. S had a meltdown at school this morning and Gary had to go pick him up. Luckily, he had taken the day off work. Mr. S had been doing really well so far this school year, so hopefully it was just a bad day.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 2:37:54 pm PDT #9561 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Heh. The Civil War is a good example of the obscurity of my ancestors - my mom was sure she would find some kind of military record for some relative or other because there were certainly family members around at the time but no, they all escaped (being documented, anyway).

My grandfather's mother, possibly pregnant with my grandfather, left her children with a neighbor when she left her first husband. First husband is listed on my grandfather's birth certificate as the father, which has become the official accepted truth, but I don't find that super convincing. This is the same accepted truth that holds that great-grandma and her second husband never lived together unmarried although first husband did not immediately die and they were never divorced and she certainly went directly to second husband (who adopted my grandfather, so it's just a question of how exactly to draw the family tree) so how does that work? Anyway, Grandpa was born in California, the generation before him in Italy, which I think is too far back to benefit me.

Aside from constantly needing to ask myself "is this my account? Is this something I need to know? Is this something I need to do?" about everything that comes up, work has not been too bad today. I'll take that as a win.


askye - Sep 27, 2021 3:26:47 pm PDT #9562 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Thanks everyone. I briefly spoke to the HR manager and she said they'd make things work out and make adjustments as needed.

I'm tired, Sunday was another day with a lot of lifting and moving things. But this morning various managers were walking around , I guess our store manager is looking at moving things or making changes for Xmas (I'm not sure) and I was going to get some stuff and one of the assistant managers I was helping yesterday and she made a comment to the store manager about how I was her MVP for yesterday.


-t - Sep 27, 2021 4:34:58 pm PDT #9563 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I’m glad they want to work with you on any time off you will need, askye, and so pleased they appreciate your work!


JZ - Sep 27, 2021 10:01:29 pm PDT #9564 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Update on 15: Matilda has been on FaceTime with a boy for the last two hours. We are not permitted in her room, but we can hear her talking and talking and laughing like a loon.


meara - Sep 28, 2021 10:34:07 am PDT #9565 of 30000

Oooh a BOY. She should be glad this is no longer the era of corded phones and having to talk in the kitchen or whatever where your whole family could hear (and also yell at you to hang up so they could use the phone)

My power is supposed to go out today. They said 9-5, but so far 1030 and I still have power. But I see a truck behind my house so I’m guessing this time it’ll actually happen, unlike last time.


-t - Sep 28, 2021 10:46:31 am PDT #9566 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, Matilda has me all sentimental about high school phone calls now

I hope your outage is not actually that long, meara!


Laura - Sep 28, 2021 11:44:14 am PDT #9567 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Fun! Wish we had FaceTime when I was her age.

Well, the vaccine booster was a bust. Although they let me register and make an appointment for my booster as an old lady, when I got there they said to come back after November 4th. Well, they asked if I was severely immunocompromised, then said no. I wanted to get it before I travel back to Florida with all the rest stops and hotels, but they promised me the Moderna was good for 8 months and I had to wait. I would call it a waisted trip, but the Fall leaves are spectacular so it's all good.

My #1 son and girlfriend left this morning on a road trip to Nashville to see Harry Styles. His girlfriend is celebrating having her job by buying concert tickets. They see Billie Eilish in February. I'm excited for them.


bennett - Sep 28, 2021 12:24:50 pm PDT #9568 of 30000

Some research indicates that the Moderna vaccine lasts better than the Pfizer one - New York Times article.


Laura - Sep 28, 2021 1:07:55 pm PDT #9569 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yes, I had heard all those reports. Really I just wanted it before traveling because paranoid! I know so many people getting breakthrough infections. I have the precautions down and don't plan on licking any doorknobs, but life is too risky.