Will be thinking good thoughts for you.
You walk in worlds the others can't begin to imagine.
Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'
Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
JenP - Aug 22, 2021 9:29:18 am PDT #8628 of 30000
aurelia - Aug 22, 2021 9:51:24 am PDT #8629 of 30000
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Wishing you minimal tsuris, Teppy.
Sheryl - Aug 22, 2021 11:03:16 am PDT #8630 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
Hope all went well, Steph.
Yesterday we took Mr. S to the county fair because he wanted to ride the rides. (When we were in CT we went to Ocean Beach which has some carnival rides along with, you know, the beach) Mostly went ok, until the point we were getting ready to go when he got upset about a) not getting to ride more rides, b) wanting to see the animals(which we let him do), c) being too tired to walk back to the shuttle to parking and d) having to wear a mask on said shuttle. All in that order. We ordered take-out instead of going to dinner since we were all tired and frazzled.
DavidS - Aug 22, 2021 11:22:11 am PDT #8631 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Wishing you a compliant and rational dad, Tep. Just this once.
Scrappy - Aug 22, 2021 12:00:09 pm PDT #8632 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Thinking of you, Teppy, and hoping for the best possible outcome.
Gudanov - Aug 22, 2021 12:03:08 pm PDT #8633 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
My elder daughter is married and moved out now. Unfortunately, after the last event I let on that I was overstimulated and not feeling well which seems to have made my wife angry with me. Now I feel like I've ruined everything. It's so stupid because I KNOW not to let on about how I feel and I screwed up anyways. I hate myself so much. I just need to get with it and hide any down or negative feelings and not ruin anything else. Aside from my stupidity, everything went smooth and I'm very proud of her. Her husband is a good guy and they seem very happy together in their little apartment. Like me, she is on the spectrum and charge is hard for her, but so far she seems to be doing very well. It will take some getting used to. Seeing her cleared out room is still a bit of a shock every time I go by.
Gudanov - Aug 22, 2021 12:04:12 pm PDT #8634 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping
Best wishes, Steph. It sounds like such an overwhelming and difficult situation. Don't forget to take at least a little time for self-care.
-t - Aug 22, 2021 12:11:19 pm PDT #8635 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Congrats on your daughter’s wedding, Gud! Best wishes to her and her husband
I just need to get with it and hide any down or negative feelings
Uh, that doesn’t sound like a good idea
DavidS - Aug 22, 2021 12:18:19 pm PDT #8636 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I just need to get with it and hide any down or negative feelings
Uh, that doesn’t sound like a good idea
Yeah, how about divorcing your psycho and abusive wife now that your kids are moving out?
Laura - Aug 22, 2021 12:22:01 pm PDT #8637 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Sending much resolution ~ma to house of Teppy's dad.
Gud, loved ones aren't supposed to get angry with you when you aren't feeling well. Period. You aren't stupid. People who get angry at you for being overwhelmed are heartless.