Or maybe you could just be Buffy, he'll see your amazing heart, and he'll fall in love with you.

Xander ,'Get It Done'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


megan walker - May 03, 2021 12:17:38 pm PDT #6068 of 30000
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Literally never thought that was a thing that would come up in medical editing. (For real, one of their responses was "I suppose the term 'mixed-race' could be used to imply that the people are more than one race." THAT'S LITERALLY WHAT IT MEANS HOLY SHIT ARE YOU A TRUMP????)

Sadly, I am not surprised. I'm working on a revision of an American Government textbook and I think the bothsidesism may kill me.

ION, I'm more than 48 hours past my second Moderna dose and besides a fevered first night and general sluggishness all Saturday, I'm fine.

Fingers crossed for Matilda's wisdom teeth removal!


amyparker - May 03, 2021 12:45:43 pm PDT #6069 of 30000
In the end it's only ever been one step, and then the next.

Teppy, you were with me the whole time, you said "You've never had Graeter's, Parker? WTAF?" and off we went.

Hey, Hec, I'm holding my thumbs that Matilda's experience is as good as it can be, and that she recovers quickly and easily.

megan, that's good to hear.

Ken is scheduled for his first shot next week. Goodness, I seem to have been crying a lot the last few days.


DavidS - May 03, 2021 1:00:53 pm PDT #6070 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Fingers crossed for Matilda's wisdom teeth removal!

Hey, Hec, I'm holding my thumbs that Matilda's experience is as good as it can be, and that she recovers quickly and easily.

Thank you! It is my One Big Worry at the moment. I think I'm going to have Emmett come down and hold her hand while she gets her anesthesia.

(She's very anxious about it herself.)


Steph L. - May 03, 2021 1:05:41 pm PDT #6071 of 30000
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Are the authors UnAmerican? Because iirc “colored” is a normal term in use in some areas, although NOT American English obviously.

The authors may be UnAmerican, but the article is definitely about South African individuals, and apparently "colored" is a normal term there, per your link. Dang. We still won't use it,* though, so it got changed to "mixed-race."

*We are being extra-super careful about articles that address race, because there was a whole (deserved) uproar over an AMA podcast in February where a physician and editor for one of the JAMA journals said that structural racism isn't a problem in medicine because -- I swear to you this is true -- racism was "made illegal in the 1960s" and discussions of structural racism shouldn't refer to race but socioeconomics.** (The physician is, of course, white, as was the podcast host, who didn't question that assertion.) (Not to mention all TPTB at the AMA who were just fine with putting that podcast on the website. Jesus.)

**Is socioeconomic status a problem in medicine? Sure. Does that mean that racism doesn't exist anymore? Jesus Christ, no. Are race and socioeconomic status intertwined to the point of being inseparable? Sure, but it still doesn't mean that racism doesn't exist anymore or that structural racism isn't a problem in medicine.

Enormous fucking blind spot there. Wow.


Calli - May 03, 2021 1:09:43 pm PDT #6072 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad Lukas is doing well.

I had a couple of friends over last night for the first time in a year. We made G&Ts with Empress Gin, which is both yummy and pH sensitive.


flea - May 03, 2021 1:10:13 pm PDT #6073 of 30000
information libertarian

Yeah I think the audience is important there! It’s good to be careful.


meara - May 03, 2021 1:11:28 pm PDT #6074 of 30000

Yikes Teppy. Good luck there.

David I’m surprised they already extended to October! I know a lot of places here have done so but I figured if kids went back to school in September that would be the big change of circumstances. Fingers crossed that happens.


Sheryl - May 03, 2021 2:08:24 pm PDT #6075 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

We are no longer doing telework in my lab. Guess I'll actually use some of my leave for days where I have an appointment of some sort(for me or Mr. S) in the middle of the day.

In annoying news, the practice where my primary care physician is is splitting into three new practices, all membership-based. I'll have to see what the fee is for the practice my doctor's in. If it's too high I'm going to have to find a new doctor/practice. Ugh.


amyparker - May 03, 2021 2:13:46 pm PDT #6076 of 30000
In the end it's only ever been one step, and then the next.

I think I'm going to have Emmett come down and hold her hand while she gets her anesthesia.

(She's very anxious about it herself.)

I found out after the fact that Ken has had a deep-seated fear of not waking up from general anesthetic, and was very frightened; he said that my being there made him feel safer. I hope that this isn't in any way what Matilda is feeling! But if they will allow Emmett to be there, I would really encourage that.

(I got him settled for the night and had my meltdown in private, in the shower, where nobody could hear me screaming.)


Laura - May 03, 2021 6:37:23 pm PDT #6077 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Skimmed....

That is delightful news about JZ's brother. I had wondered how he was doing several times, then forgot to ask.