This isn't a come-on. I'm in a very serious relationship with a landscape architect.

Oliver ,'Conviction (1)'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


WindSparrow - Nov 20, 2020 3:12:53 pm PST #58 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That does sound like math hell. Poor Matilda.

One of the people I support got tested yesterday as a precaution. I told her doctor that in an ordinary year, this level of "just not quite herself" I would happily wait and watch until it either just faded away and she was better developed something more serious. Doc agreed, now is not the time to fool around. And now I am waiting for results.


Calli - Nov 20, 2020 3:16:17 pm PST #59 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

It’s not the specific holiday I’m going to miss if (when) my Christmas plans get cancelled. It’s the family that I haven’t seen for a year. And I am so pissed off at people politicizing pandemic response in such a stupid, pointless way. A virus doesn’t care who you voted for or your opinion on government overreach. Stay home when you can and wear a mask when you can’t. Isolation’s a legit problem, but death is worse. And I’m typing at the choir, but if I go to Mebane, NC, and stand on corners screaming at people I’ll get arrested.


Beverly - Nov 20, 2020 5:15:35 pm PST #60 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Scream at us. Those of us who are noise-sensitive will nod and offer sympathy--and internet hairpats, if wanted.

Well--first 60?

Yay! I was flummoxed by 10-ish new posts in Natter and sat blinking at the board a minute ot two before realizing there must be a new Natter beyond Message Center. I need to go back now and catch up.


Consuela - Nov 20, 2020 5:40:06 pm PST #61 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Word, Beverly.

Well, I won't get to attend my niece's wedding (they will have 8 people there), but I got to go watch her try on gowns today, and that was charming and she found something lovely that makes her look wonderful. And then we got take-out at a popup in the city run by a friend of hers, with great pasta and cocktails.

And Don Jr. has Covid.

So it's not the worst possible Friday.


Cass - Nov 20, 2020 7:07:23 pm PST #62 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

The Board. A Big Ass Whiteboard was installed in my office with all of my weekly tasks, and if anyone came and asked me to do something that wouldn't allow me to complete other tasks, it was boss' decision to say which of the tasks will be dropped/delayed to next week.

I need a Board. It would clearly show priorities and how they interact and effect each other.

It’s so weird to realize so many people don’t care about others. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised but how are people so damn sure they will be immune and they don’t give a damn about others?


DavidS - Nov 20, 2020 7:27:31 pm PST #63 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Dun ta duh! She finished her math test! She has exactly six minutes to eat pasta before PE class starts.

She had to re-do the final problem seven times before she remembered "Run Over Rise" on her coordinates calculations and sorted it.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 20, 2020 7:45:47 pm PST #64 of 30000
What is even happening?

I told my mother I didn't think it was a good idea for her to eat here on Thanksgiving. She only lives a few miles away, so if it's not raining, we'll mask up and hang distanced in my yard, either before or after the meal. My oldest son is coming for dinner. He'll have been quarantining for 2 weeks by Thanksgiving day, but will get tested just in case, over the weekend.

It came down to shopping. I couldn't get everything we needed delivered, so my husband had to go grocery shopping today. If he got tested, in time to get the results before Thanksgiving, the test would have to be performed too close to the possible exposure to be reliable.

I made the call, but I feel terrible. My mom lives alone. My dad is gone. Her siblings are gone. My kids, DH, and I are it. But we can't be the ones who expose her. I couldn't live with that. Mom was in agreement. It's not like there was a fight, or even hurt feelings. It just sucks.

She was then going to go shopping and pick up a turkey breast to cook for her dinner. After I finished banging my head against the wall, I talked her into letting us pick it up. I figure I'll make her a pumpkin pie, too.

I am furious at everyone who couldn't get it together (or break through the cult programming) to just chill at home.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 20, 2020 7:46:01 pm PST #65 of 30000
What is even happening?

WTG Matilda!


dcp - Nov 20, 2020 7:54:18 pm PST #66 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

...can't be the ones who expose her.

I have said the same to my own nearby relatives.


sarameg - Nov 20, 2020 8:38:57 pm PST #67 of 30000

I got kittens, 8 wks. Thursday.

I’ve been following along but barely faking being human, so no words. Saved what I had for a void unlikely to respond & cat pics.

Anyway, so yeah, a sandkitten and a greybie werekitten (weirdest coat) & I think I need a name for the werekitten... P&L are 75% clueless, I think? Hinked, but right now passed out as normal.