Hey, evil dead, you're in my seat.

Xander ,'First Date'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Apr 13, 2024 8:40:56 am PDT #29734 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

That sucks, meara!! Fuck those people!


Steph L. - Apr 13, 2024 9:44:53 am PDT #29735 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

^^^ meara, what lisah said!

Finished with taxes! (Which would have gone faster if Tim hadn't realized, about 30 seconds before I hit "file," that he had interest income on a rather large CD he cashed out this year to move into our brokerage account. So I got to backpedal and input all that info and marvel that we still managed to get a tiny refund in the end anyway.)

Now groceries, CVS, ride the bike, lift weights. Tomorrow is the bridal shower for our niece, which should be lovely. (Oh shit, that adds one more thing to today's to-do list: get the steamer out and steam the wrinkles out of the dress I'm wearing tomorrow.)


Jesse - Apr 13, 2024 9:45:13 am PDT #29736 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That's terrible, meara! The fuck is wrong with people.

Woooo, sumi!!

I just said I could host a meeting of 20 people in my house, and I'm not sure that's true! So fingers crossed they find somewhere better.


Jesse - Apr 13, 2024 9:46:31 am PDT #29737 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Also: I'm sorry to miss both Shir and the memorial. When Shir is on the east coast, I'll be on the west coast, which is also the reason I can't go back out again.


Shir - Apr 13, 2024 12:55:10 pm PDT #29738 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Per the news here, the regional war began. I'll update here as much as I can.

Not too optimistic about my trip, but the flights weren't cancelled yet.


DavidS - Apr 13, 2024 1:19:50 pm PDT #29739 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Not too optimistic about my trip, but the flights weren't cancelled yet.

Oof. Fingers crossed.

So I woke up to credit card fraud. Had to cancel my debit card, then fill out a fraud dispute and now I have to go change all my card references on PayPal, Venmo, Amazon etc.

They didn't get that much and it will come back to me, and I do have a separate card so I'm still 21st century functional.

But the really annoying thing is that despite the efforts of the customer service people at my Credit Union, they are going to require that I close out the joint account with JZ and open a new account with me as the sole person attached to it.

Which means all the autopays which we're diligently set up directly to that account number instead of through the card will have to be changed. ::sigh::

However, the tentative plan was for EM to help me compile a master spreadsheet that tracked all online accounts, with logins and passwords and payment schedules. Because I'm really still scrambling every time I need to deal with these accounts.

So we have three months to get that together and that will be better.

Annoyingly, I'll get a new card once they set up the new account and will once again have to go around change all my online accounts that are through the card.


P.M. Marc - Apr 13, 2024 1:45:22 pm PDT #29740 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Shir, thinking of you and Nilly and everyone I know there. These are terrifying times.

Hec, ugh! Boo!


Laura - Apr 13, 2024 1:48:55 pm PDT #29741 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh Shir!! I hadn't even listened to any news today. I just tuned in. It is really horrific. Selfishly, I hope your flight doesn't get canceled.

What a pain, David. As if your onerous task list wasn't long enough.


brenda m - Apr 13, 2024 2:14:56 pm PDT #29742 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh Shir. Thinking about you and Nilly all the time these days. And just everyone.


Shir - Apr 13, 2024 3:54:59 pm PDT #29743 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

In shelter. Looks like it's gonna be a long night.