I am not having sex with Spike! But I'm starting to think that you might be.

Buffy ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Mar 25, 2024 5:28:09 pm PDT #29374 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, lisah.

Response to chemo is an individual thing. My neighbor and his partner were told to get his affairs in order because he would not survive, and he was in dire shape for a long time, but he recovered. Lifetime changes with severe diabetes and significant fatigue, but his cancer is gone. Maybe 6 years now? I've known too many others who couldn't tolerate the treatment. There is no way to predict in advance.


Laura - Mar 25, 2024 6:06:26 pm PDT #29375 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

So I just found out that my back door neighbor for 20 years died yesterday of cancer. She was Bobby's second mom. Her son officiated Bobby's wedding, and the reception was at her home. It was apparently very sudden, or she kept it very private. A few years ago her elderly mom moved in with them, and she is still alive. I'm broken hearted for her family, and Bobby, as he loved her so much. I sent a message to Bobby, but I doubt I will hear from him. This is a big shock.


Calli - Mar 25, 2024 6:21:21 pm PDT #29376 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m sorry about so many losses among the buffistae.


Tom Scola - Mar 26, 2024 4:52:51 am PDT #29377 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Baltimore peeps, please check in.


Steph L. - Mar 26, 2024 5:31:08 am PDT #29378 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I saw on FB that msbelle is fine. Fucking bridges, man.


msbelle - Mar 26, 2024 5:34:32 am PDT #29379 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Yep, I am far north of there as are Lisa and Sara. Both of them I believe work from home.


Laura - Mar 26, 2024 5:35:00 am PDT #29380 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

So scary.


Dana - Mar 26, 2024 6:58:52 am PDT #29381 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

Jesus christ.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 26, 2024 7:26:49 am PDT #29382 of 30000
"You should never say bad things about the dead, only good… Joan Crawford is dead. Good.” —Bette Davis

My condolences, shrift and lisah.

That bridge collapse is horrifying.


lisah - Mar 26, 2024 7:40:21 am PDT #29383 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Yes, I’m on the other side of town from that bridge and rarely use it. How horrifying it is!!