And I wonder, what possible catastrophe came crashing down from heaven and brought this dashing stranger to tears?

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sj - Feb 13, 2024 9:15:30 am PST #28652 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Just got the call from the breast clinic - BENIGN.

Woo Hoo!!!

Thanks, meara. It's pretty much the same because I can't take her out in the snow anyway, but I'd prefer days off not be on TCG's long day.


Amy - Feb 13, 2024 9:29:42 am PST #28653 of 30000
Because books.

Excellent boob news, Susan!


DavidS - Feb 13, 2024 10:13:47 am PST #28654 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Just got the call from the breast clinic - BENIGN.

Yay! Boob News You Can Use!


shrift - Feb 13, 2024 11:48:39 am PST #28655 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Hell yeah, Susan!

I've been reading but not really posting because work is insane and I'm tired.

My dad was in the hospital over the weekend due to fluid on the lungs, which they had originally diagnosed as pneumonia. He only got the pneumonia diagnosis after my mom made him talk to a triage nurse since he'd been complaining that he couldn't breathe, but he was dragging his feet because he didn't want to get a COPD diagnosis what with being a lifelong smoker. He also needs to talk to his regular doctor about sleep apnea, which he hasn't done yet because his brother said something about CPAP machines potentially causing suffocation??? My uncle is very much not a doctor, y'all.

Anyway. I'm trying very hard to not to follow the "avoidance until things become critical" coping mechanism at play here.

I have been reading a lot lately on how high-masking smart neurodivergent women just FALL THE FUCK APART during perimenopause because all of the coping mechanisms we've been using since puberty were built on a foundation of mostly reliable hormone levels, which, as it turns out, were pretty important for day-to-day functioning.

I'm laughing nervously and taking notes.


-t - Feb 13, 2024 3:01:59 pm PST #28656 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Fuck yeah, benign!


Sophia Brooks - Feb 13, 2024 5:41:58 pm PST #28657 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Yay Susan! I love Woo Hooters!!!

I have been reading a lot lately on how high-masking smart neurodivergent women just FALL THE FUCK APART during perimenopause because all of the coping mechanisms we've been using since puberty were built on a foundation of mostly reliable hormone levels, which, as it turns out, were pretty important for day-to-day functioning.

I know I already commented on this, but I think it was actually a one-two punch of COVID isolation plus perimenopause. I was really good at peopling. I made a study of people. But, like, I forgot how and then also lost my memory. I am so glad that Laura and David reached out to me, though, because it is helpful being here.


EpicTangent - Feb 13, 2024 6:42:06 pm PST #28658 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

B-9, B-9, yay!!!


Susan W. - Feb 13, 2024 7:00:26 pm PST #28659 of 30000
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

In other good news, Alex was reinstated in the Seattle Promise program for spring quarter. Now all we need is for Dylan to come through the current round of layoffs at his Big Tech Company unscathed, and our family can declare victory for the week.


DavidS - Feb 13, 2024 8:31:55 pm PST #28660 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I am so glad that Laura and David reached out to me, though, because it is helpful being here.

You belong here! Much loved and valued.

Alex was reinstated in the Seattle Promise program for spring quarter.

Excellent news!


Laura - Feb 14, 2024 5:51:00 am PST #28661 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Susan, lovely to read all the good news this morning. May the good keep coming the rest of the year.

Well done, Long Island voters. Really wish you had paid attention before making us endure Santos. Now we need another dozen or so districts to wake up and get rid of the crazy.

Today may be Valentine's Day to most of the world, but it was my dad's birthday so it is always a special day in my family. DH made me breakfast, which was nice.

Trying to find a cruise to take with my sisters. Yikes, they got pricey!