None of it means a damn thing.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Dec 28, 2023 9:54:57 am PST #27697 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

-t it has been really fraught and Mom has been worried about what is going to happen. I'm just thrilled that he gets to start 2024 in a real home. He moved so he'll be in a new school and a new town which I know can be sad but it also will give him a chance to have a fresh start.

Usually I can spend quite a bit of time not having to deal with customers but in the lead up to Christmas we had more (although not as busy as previous years) and also the customers were really needy and often were asking where something was that they had walked past or were actually standing in front of and didn't realize it. I'm really lucky because I didn't have to deal with anyone rude (although the front end people did).

And the only real customer misbehaving I was around was on Christmas Eve we ran out of hams and right after the manager let a customer know she went and took a ham out of someone else's cart. No one saw it and the woman who had her ham stolen let me know that "some people are just don't know how to act".


Laura - Dec 28, 2023 10:02:58 am PST #27698 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Still with the Covid brain here, so I am late to announce that we celebrate the birthdays of Emily and quester today, as well as my DH, so excellent humans all! May all have the best of birthdays and may the year to come bring joy and laughter.


smonster - Dec 28, 2023 10:21:53 am PST #27699 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy birthday to Emily, Quester, and B!!

lisah, that really, really bites. More than once we have come back from a family vacation and had to go say goodbye to a pet. It is, apparently, A Thing. Which absolutely does not make it easier to experience. I’m so sorry.

I wish I had something helpful to say, Pix. All I have is my love and compassion.


erikaj - Dec 28, 2023 10:45:43 am PST #27700 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Oh, LisaH, I forgot to say that that's horrible. Sorry about your kitteh.


lisah - Dec 28, 2023 11:19:50 am PST #27701 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Thanks everyone.


Pix - Dec 28, 2023 11:44:53 am PST #27702 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'm so sorry, Lisa. We had something similar happen with our kitty Seamus this past summer. It's so hard.


JenP - Dec 28, 2023 1:12:09 pm PST #27703 of 30000

Happy Birthday to quester, Emily, and B! Big day up in here.


Calli - Dec 28, 2023 3:26:51 pm PST #27704 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m sorry about the fraught situation with your dad, Pix.

Lisah, I’m so sorry about your cat.

Just got back from the family Christmas festivities. There are three kids under five involved, so the chaos level is high. It’s fun for the short period I’m there, but it definitely wipes my introverted self right out. Now I’m home under the cat, waiting for a pizza.


-t - Dec 28, 2023 3:33:55 pm PST #27705 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Argh. Just got an email from a head of brand asking myteam to do something by next Wednesday that I, for one, do not see how we could possibly do it or why we would even be involved, but my boss has taken the rest of today and tomorrow off, and my other teammate is gone for the day and our VP is on vacation. I'm not going to answer. Hopefully someone else will check their email by tomorrow. If no one else says anything by EOD tomorrow I will just panic, I guess.


dcp - Dec 28, 2023 3:43:55 pm PST #27706 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I, for one, do not see how we could possibly do it or why we would even be involved,

How about replying, "This needs to be cleared by [boss], and they won't be available until Monday" with a separate email punting the issue to [boss] saying, "Do you know why they think we should be involved? Do you know who the right team is, to do this work?

My last boss was very averse to any team trying to dump their work on us. Helping out was okay -- if they asked nicely, and cleared it in advance.