Everybody dies, Tracey. Someone's carrying a bullet for you right now, doesn't even know it. The trick is to die of old age before it finds you.

Mal ,'The Message'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


smonster - Dec 28, 2023 10:21:53 am PST #27699 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy birthday to Emily, Quester, and B!!

lisah, that really, really bites. More than once we have come back from a family vacation and had to go say goodbye to a pet. It is, apparently, A Thing. Which absolutely does not make it easier to experience. I’m so sorry.

I wish I had something helpful to say, Pix. All I have is my love and compassion.


erikaj - Dec 28, 2023 10:45:43 am PST #27700 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Oh, LisaH, I forgot to say that that's horrible. Sorry about your kitteh.


lisah - Dec 28, 2023 11:19:50 am PST #27701 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Thanks everyone.


Pix - Dec 28, 2023 11:44:53 am PST #27702 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'm so sorry, Lisa. We had something similar happen with our kitty Seamus this past summer. It's so hard.


JenP - Dec 28, 2023 1:12:09 pm PST #27703 of 30000

Happy Birthday to quester, Emily, and B! Big day up in here.


Calli - Dec 28, 2023 3:26:51 pm PST #27704 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m sorry about the fraught situation with your dad, Pix.

Lisah, I’m so sorry about your cat.

Just got back from the family Christmas festivities. There are three kids under five involved, so the chaos level is high. It’s fun for the short period I’m there, but it definitely wipes my introverted self right out. Now I’m home under the cat, waiting for a pizza.


-t - Dec 28, 2023 3:33:55 pm PST #27705 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Argh. Just got an email from a head of brand asking myteam to do something by next Wednesday that I, for one, do not see how we could possibly do it or why we would even be involved, but my boss has taken the rest of today and tomorrow off, and my other teammate is gone for the day and our VP is on vacation. I'm not going to answer. Hopefully someone else will check their email by tomorrow. If no one else says anything by EOD tomorrow I will just panic, I guess.


dcp - Dec 28, 2023 3:43:55 pm PST #27706 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I, for one, do not see how we could possibly do it or why we would even be involved,

How about replying, "This needs to be cleared by [boss], and they won't be available until Monday" with a separate email punting the issue to [boss] saying, "Do you know why they think we should be involved? Do you know who the right team is, to do this work?

My last boss was very averse to any team trying to dump their work on us. Helping out was okay -- if they asked nicely, and cleared it in advance.


-t - Dec 28, 2023 4:04:27 pm PST #27707 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I may say something like that tomorrow (although "until Tuesday" because holiday) if no one else responds. The request is to my whole team and our VP and the sales team and some of Marketing and maybe someone in one of those groups is working tomorrow and knows who this would belong to.


DavidS - Dec 28, 2023 6:00:19 pm PST #27708 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Maine has kicked Trump off the ballot for sedition.

This is all going to be decided by Trump's Supreme Court, but I'm enjoying this part.

Matilda and I cleaned house today and ate leftover Bouef Bourguignon, which I recommend on a dreary December day.

I'm very sorry about your kitty, lisah. It is heartbreaking.