Now I did a job. I got nothing but trouble since I did it, not to mention more than a few unkind words as regard to my character so let me make this abundantly clear. I do the job. And then I get paid.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Shir - Oct 11, 2023 7:15:26 am PDT #26036 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

I wanted to come here with some good news today, because with all of the truly awful things around there are amazing stories of bravery, heroism and solidarity. After being ashamed in my country for years, I'm a bit more proud to be Israeli (and I want it to be clear that I'm including non Jews and residents and just anyone who is here and not trying to murder someone else. Human beings, just human beings). The ways people here support one another are nothing short of amazing, and it's deeply painful and disheartening to realize how many of these roles should have been done by the non-functioning government. The levels of anger at the government are unprecedented. And rightly so.

So here's a video of one of the security gaurds who saved many of his kibbutz, and their response when the met him (they all evacuated to a hotel. Only three were killed): [link]

And there were some other good things that I wanted to share, but today the news started a get closer. A friend's father is missing (that is, he's either dead or kidnapped). And a wonderful, beautiful classmate from my MA was killed in combat. The worst part is to know that this just begun, and not all of the dead have been identified yet. There will be more that I know. That I knew.

Over 1,200 dead, and this is not the end yet.


Amy - Oct 11, 2023 7:22:35 am PDT #26037 of 30000
Because books.

Oh Shir, I'm so sorry. And please believe we're all truly grateful whenever you or Nilly have time to update us -- it's amazing that you can do that, and all we want is for everyone to be safe in the midst of the horror.


Laura - Oct 11, 2023 7:36:02 am PDT #26038 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Thank you for the reminder that there are still a huge number of human beings who don't want to murder each other. It is hard to remember when the news is filled with so much horror.


Jesse - Oct 11, 2023 8:10:24 am PDT #26039 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So glad to see you here, Nilly.


Tom Scola - Oct 11, 2023 8:16:16 am PDT #26040 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

That's what it was like in NYC after the 9/11 attacks. 2,600 people died in a city of millions, but seemingly everyone knew someone who died, or whose family was affected.


DavidS - Oct 11, 2023 8:26:26 am PDT #26041 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Thanks for the updates, Shir, and signs of hope.

ION, I got Matilda this dress off Etsy: [link]


askye - Oct 11, 2023 8:32:53 am PDT #26042 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

David that is an amazing dress.

Shir I've been thinking of you and Nilly.

Haven't posted much anywhere lately. I come home and I'm kind of peopled out. Need to get used to so many interactions in a day.

Work is ok for the most part. I have tbe next 4 days off since I was going to my aunt's memorial but I'm not now (per mom's request). I also volunteering tomorrow and Friday for a few hours and then don't know about the weekend.


Steph L. - Oct 11, 2023 8:40:16 am PDT #26043 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Shir and Nilly, thanks for checking in. Much love to you and your families.

David, that dress is fabulous!


Laura - Oct 11, 2023 8:55:05 am PDT #26044 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

The dress will look amazing on Matilda.

Hivemind help requested. My MIL has been having a lot of trouble sleeping, mostly from restless leg, but probably a whole lot of reasons. My SIL suggested CBD gummies, but I my head is hurting from looking at all the options out there. Anyone use anything with success?


JenP - Oct 11, 2023 8:58:05 am PDT #26045 of 30000

All the love to you, Shir and Nilly, and thank you for checking in here. It means so much to see you.

David, that dress is fabulous.