I kissed him, and I told him that I loved him. And I killed him.

Buffy ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Sep 05, 2023 1:35:11 pm PDT #25095 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

(Did I mention we moved? We did. Much better house. And it has a natural gas -powered fire pit in the backyard!!)

I did not know that! I'm going to imagine you finally moved into the Addams Family mansion you both deserve.

About to take Matilda to therapy, then swing by the bank to see if I can deposit this big check in JZ's name (we do have a joint account) or if I have to wait until I get the death cert and all that.

Tomorrow Matilda returns to school.

Day after tomorrow I go to Georgia.

I'm trying to fend off family expectations about the funeral because I just can't plan it at the moment, and I don't want it to land on Emmett and Matilda's birthdays.

One thing at a time.


erikaj - Sep 05, 2023 2:13:36 pm PDT #25096 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Oh, Hec, so wish I could take some of this off your hands. But I couldn't. You'd end up with a forkless celebration of life on the worst day ever because I sent out a resume once that said I was detail-oriented--I do have my moments, I suppose-, but not that time. Because it was misspelled, and I didn't notice for a week. I don't claim that anymore, obviously.


NoiseDesign - Sep 05, 2023 3:06:23 pm PDT #25097 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

David I'm so sorry to hear that you family expectations are causing more strife.


erikaj - Sep 05, 2023 3:26:21 pm PDT #25098 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

don't they always?


JenP - Sep 05, 2023 3:44:44 pm PDT #25099 of 30000

Amy, yikes! Don't... go to Longwood Gardens, I guess? Eek.

Atropa, congratulations on the move... and the fire pit.

David, wishing you cessation of family being a pain and safe travels. I'm so sorry this visit to your sister has to happen, for all the reasons.

I know I missed a bunch of stuff. I am thinking supportive things when I read.


Jesse - Sep 05, 2023 3:58:22 pm PDT #25100 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm pretty much JenP here.

But I do have a bluesky invite code to offer if anyone wants one.


JenP - Sep 05, 2023 4:00:21 pm PDT #25101 of 30000

I would love it!!


Jesse - Sep 05, 2023 4:03:57 pm PDT #25102 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Great! I'll send it to you via Messenger?


JenP - Sep 05, 2023 4:05:17 pm PDT #25103 of 30000

Perfect, thank you!


DavidS - Sep 05, 2023 4:30:09 pm PDT #25104 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Family's not really being a pain. They just expect that a funeral announcement would have followed by now, and that's not a crazy expectation.

Anyway, I ran a berjillion errands with Matilda today in advance of her returning to school tomorrow.

The complicated route I took to hit all my stops had all the genuine satisfaction of a solving a sudoku. Because I had to factor in one way streets, streets with no turns, cross city routes and hit the parking on every stop too.

Ehh, it's too much to explain but if you've lived in San Francisco and ever had to run 7 errands in two hours you know what I mean.