Hey! What a surprise! Hostile 17! Can I get you a drink, Hostile 17?

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Apr 02, 2023 12:23:46 pm PDT #21495 of 30000

Hmmm... yeah, except it's likely they lost track of who planned it? I can see that happening.


Sheryl - Apr 02, 2023 12:33:51 pm PDT #21496 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Gaming get-together was fun, even though not a lot of gaming happened. We were told we'd be meeting at 2, and we were there at 2:05. No one else was there. We put our names in for a table and waited outside the cafe. It was a nice day so that wasn't too bad. Eventually we got seated, and the rest of our group straggled in. After everyone was there and got food, we played SuperMunchkin. (We ended up having to add treasure cards from a different variant of Munchkin, as we were running out.) We left around 6:30 and went to dinner.


Laura - Apr 02, 2023 1:40:41 pm PDT #21497 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh dear, Vortex! Whooops!


DavidS - Apr 02, 2023 4:12:59 pm PDT #21498 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Our flight got canceled at the last minute.

Had to scramble to book another flight home tomorrow morning on a different airline. Maxing out all our daily credit limits.

Back at the hotel for another night. JZ was so weary and ready to go home, but at least she's back in bed and can rest until tomorrow.

Emmett took an extra night with Matilda in good cheer.

Everything was timed out and looking good and then blam, rug yanked out from under.

Bah. Bar opens at 5. I'll have a couple and come back up, but I'm more than ready to be home.


Laga - Apr 02, 2023 4:35:52 pm PDT #21499 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

ugh that sucks. I'm sorry for the hassle


JenP - Apr 02, 2023 4:48:44 pm PDT #21500 of 30000

So sorry for that hassle for you guys.


msbelle - Apr 02, 2023 4:58:36 pm PDT #21501 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Ugh, my religious cousin (lay preacher and married to a deacon in the split off “global” Methodist church the no gays one) calling me before he calls and confronts my brother about a FB post (shove your “thoughts and prayers” up your ass).

For the record, he and I are not FB friends and I do not think he and my brother are friends so it must be his wife who said something.

So fucking awkward and unnecessary. He actually started the conversation “I think you know that I don’t agree with you and (my brother)’s lifestyle.” So my brother and I are now wondering if he thinks I’m gay or if he doesn’t agree with bitter as a lifestyle or messy or loud.


Cashmere - Apr 02, 2023 5:28:28 pm PDT #21502 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Religious cousins who don't mind their own business can fuck right off.

msbelle, thanks for the Epic update.

David, I hope you and JZ's trips in the future are less fraught with issues.

My good friend here is in hospice after almost 12 years battling cancer. I am livid that someone so intelligent, graceful, good natured, generous, kind, and loving is not going to be here in a couple of weeks. I need to work through that because she just needs love right now. But my anger stage is going to be extra long.

The Moms for Liberty are finally coming for my library. One of their ilk has convinced our anti-government county board executive (who only won his position by 14 fucking votes) to appoint her to the library board of trustees. This FUCKING CANDIDATE ran an unsuccessful campaign for school board running AGAINST CRT and DE&I. I started a letter writing campaign this week and I'm going to make a statement at the executive committee meeting tomorrow afternoon. Odds are not in our favor. I'll probably have to continue the fight at the full board meeting later this month to see if I can get 13 members of the county board to override the appointment.

FUCKING FUCK, I'm tired of fighting.


Theodosia - Apr 03, 2023 4:02:21 am PDT #21503 of 30000
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

I'm definitely on the Not The Five Year Plan I Foresaw train here, both personally and professionally, two IRL friends battling cancer and another (roommate) dead, and working as a driver/helper at an assisted living, which also wasn't the job I thought it was going to be, what with the pandemic where it changed by a lot.

(That doesn't even add in the Buffista and other virtual circle friends woes. I may not speak up much here, but I'm following you all.)

At least Trump got indicted, and will have to sit through a trial -- maybe multiple trials? I can only hope.

In other news, good morning?


Laura - Apr 03, 2023 5:02:40 am PDT #21504 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Good morning! You may ask why I am enthused on a Monday morning, with so much wrong in the world. Well, today is Scola day! It brightens the world so much that we can celebrate Tom being born this day. Have a wonderful day, Tom. May the year bring all good things.