Nothing worse than a monster who thinks he's right with God.

Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Apr 02, 2023 9:33:07 am PDT #21488 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Life is weird. None of my expectations about where I would be in five years have come true since I went to college.

So much this. Going back to my teens. This is likely why I abandoned the notion of expectations decades ago. Now most of my life has been spent as go-with-the-flow girl. There is a certain serenity in this.


DavidS - Apr 02, 2023 9:43:06 am PDT #21489 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Keep your receipts. Even if you are not the one footing the bill.

I am keeping the receipts and they are footing the bill.

Front Desk To me: That minibar charge is correct?
Me: Yes.

Now most of my life has been spent as go-with-the-flow girl. There is a certain serenity in this.

I can't say I've felt particularly serene lately.

But I am definitely trying to flow.


dcp - Apr 02, 2023 9:56:08 am PDT #21490 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

Life is weird. None of my expectations about where I would be in five years have come true since I went to college.

Oh, my, yes, likewise.

Homo semper aliud, Fortuna aliud cogitat. "Man intends one thing, Fate another." -- attribution disputed, but possibly Publilius Syrus [link]


Vortex - Apr 02, 2023 11:42:18 am PDT #21491 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Have you ever suggested an event, contacted people, sent out a Doodle poll, made a reservation at the restaurant, responded to emails about the event and then COMPLETELY FUCKING FORGOT ABOUT IT?!?!?!!? Well, I just did!

Was supposed to have a reunion brunch with a bunch of people that I was really excited to see and just TOTALLY SPACED. Realized when I happened to check Facebook. ARGH!


JenP - Apr 02, 2023 11:53:26 am PDT #21492 of 30000

Same re: five-year... guesses. I have never been a five year goal person, but I think maybe in my twenties to early thirties things pretty much happened as expected. All bets were off after about mid-thirties.

Speaking of which, I took a very light trip to my knees in they parking lot this morning, and my knee and ankle are a little hurty, though I can walk.

I may be abundantly cautious and get an x-ray at OrthoVA tomorrow. At most, I suspect they'd give me a boot or brace, but, you know, I have walked around on a broken ankle for a week without realizing it before, so... there are bad precedents to overcome. Doesn't hurt nearly as much as that time, though.

Went to a UU church service this morning. They were nice. I miss the fellowship of my UMC church from before I moved away from here in the aughts, but, you know, I'm not actually a Christian or, frankly spiritual in any sense really anymore, so I don't go to church. It's kind of a bummer -- they were good, welcoming folks at Central UMC.

ETA: I have thought about doing, "I'm an apostate, but can I come back anyway? I still make a great tuna casserole..." They'd let me in and stealth pray for my return to the fold!


JenP - Apr 02, 2023 12:07:11 pm PDT #21493 of 30000

Oh, no, Vortex!!! That is such a weird, crappy feeling. So sorry.

(And, yeah, been there. Back in the day before cell phones, I planned a dinner/movie night and just forgot about it. They all had fun but wondered what the hell happened to me! I don't think anyone was even able to get me on the phone until the next day).


Vortex - Apr 02, 2023 12:08:55 pm PDT #21494 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Well, it's a little wierd that 2 people contacted me after it was over.


JenP - Apr 02, 2023 12:23:46 pm PDT #21495 of 30000

Hmmm... yeah, except it's likely they lost track of who planned it? I can see that happening.


Sheryl - Apr 02, 2023 12:33:51 pm PDT #21496 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Gaming get-together was fun, even though not a lot of gaming happened. We were told we'd be meeting at 2, and we were there at 2:05. No one else was there. We put our names in for a table and waited outside the cafe. It was a nice day so that wasn't too bad. Eventually we got seated, and the rest of our group straggled in. After everyone was there and got food, we played SuperMunchkin. (We ended up having to add treasure cards from a different variant of Munchkin, as we were running out.) We left around 6:30 and went to dinner.


Laura - Apr 02, 2023 1:40:41 pm PDT #21497 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh dear, Vortex! Whooops!