oh golly, Sheryl. So stressful.

I really hope the residential program can happen soon: you all need a break.

I spent the morning at Alcatraz, visiting some project sites we have out there. Ordinarily this would be fun, but it was pouring and windy, and we hiked through quite a lot of mud and bird poo. I got pretty wet and cold. But now I am home and took a nap with the dog and I have to get my act together to go back out -- visiting coworkers are meeting for pizza in Berkeley.

Sheryl, I hope they're able to expedite getting Mr S into the residential program.

The tendon in my foot/leg that had me in a boot for 6 weeks a few years ago is acting up again. I'm really trying to go easy on it, but the distance from my office to the theatre where we're currently in tech is most of a city block and I really hate walking slowly. I'm trying though.

So difficult, Sheryl. My heart breaks for all of you.

Sheryl, I hope they're able to expedite getting Mr S into the residential program.

So many times this. I'm so sorry, Sheryl.

For those not on my FB, my MRI results were...copious. I will know more after I meet with the orthopedic surgeon Jan. 19. And I should NOT have googled ACL surgery and read about how that works.

1. Irregularity and at least partial discontinuity of the proximal ACL adjacent to the femoral attachment, compatible with ACL injury. Correlation with clinical exam is recommended.
2. Grade 2 MCL sprain.
3. Bone contusion and subchondral impaction fracture of the posterior aspect of the lateral tibial plateau.
4. Small joint effusion.
5. Trace popliteal cyst.
6. Mild posterolateral soft tissue edema, likely posttraumatic.

Vortex that would be awesome.

Insent!

Yikes Pix! Sounds scary, but fingers crossed the treatment isn't as involved as all that makes it sound.

I found out last night that the new place's dishwasher still doesn't work (getting it connected was one of the purchase stipulations), and I've yet to figure out what magical combination of cables will allow the living room TV to connect to the internet for streaming services. Neither of which is a disaster, I washed dishes by hand for years and I can watch Netflix/Disney+/whatever on a 27" work monitor while regular cable works fine in the living room. Just little annoyances that pile on more to deal with when I thought I was done with most of the new home setup.

So. Just had the first meeting with the oncologist, and it's not good. Because the tumor has metastasized it's officially not operable. The current plan is for chemo starting ASAP, likely early next week, to keep it from spreading any further. And then... chemo forever, or until a new treatment is available.

Bottom line, I'll have this for as long as I live, and it'll almost surely be the reason I die (unless I take up skydiving or broadsword-fighting). But how long or when? Not known. The oncologist said she has patients whom she gave the exact same speech to five years ago who responded to chemo much better than she'd hoped, or who got by long enough to qualify for clinical trials of something experimental that turned out to be exactly what they needed. One of Hec's best friends has my identical diagnosis, including metastases and officially inoperable, and he's been in chemo and stable for three years now.

And they're taking my pain management needs seriously and prioritizing them (and of course I can't stop thinking about how stupid lucky I am to be a white middle-class longtime employee with multiple higher-ups advocating for me, and how that's really the only reason I'm being treated like this while ita was treated the way she was).

JZ I know that isn't the news you wanted to hear and I'm just hoping that in 5 or 6 years when your oncologist is having this talk with a patient you are one of the patients that has been stable and doing well.

I discovered I have 40 hours of PTO that I have to use or lose by the end of April. I have it because I haven't used a lot of the time since I got back. And I got a bump in PTO for this year because I've been with the company for over 5 years. So now I get 200 hours of PTO a year. So lots of vacation/sick time I should have been using all along! PLUS I have 10 Personal Days.

So I'm thinking a trip to Florida at end of March/beginning of April and maybe talk to my brother about visiting them in VA. and another trip to Florida in the Fall. and maybe taking the week of my birthday off? who knows

Dammit, JZ. I'm so sorry.