They're doing it backwards; walking up the down slide.

River ,'Ariel'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Dec 28, 2022 6:31:09 pm PST #19587 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I’m sorry you have to do this, sj, but you are in the right. Hang in there.


Dana - Dec 28, 2022 6:37:36 pm PST #19588 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

sj, it might help to write some things out and practice saying them.


Cass - Dec 28, 2022 8:59:17 pm PST #19589 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Oh, hell no. Full refund.

Team Dana! Which is also Team sj.

sj, it might help to write some things out and practice saying them.

Still Team Dana which is also still Team sj.

I definitely need to write some notes beforehand when in situations like this needing to confront people. It's not easy for me but it's important.

I was referred for a colonoscopy a few months back. I did the consultation (asked if I was diabetic three times and nope.) When I mentioned my hyponatremia, the guy waved it off. Annoying but I'll definitely bring it up to the office before my appt. It's not common, I expect to have teachable moments from now on.

I did the prep which was as exciting as you'd expect. And I had to have the Boy stay with me in case my electrolytes went badly. Given that the prep was huge dosages of the supplement that stabilizes my hyponatremia, I wanted to have someone around.

Got to the surgery location and waited a couple of hours. A front person twigged to the hypernatremia after I'd made a big deal about it on the paper charts and they moved me to the front of line. It's rude to have seizures in a clinic, I assume.

I went back, was clothed in a hospital gown and about five minutes from anesthesia and the nurse came to tell me the doctors were not in-network. Five minutes from anesthesia or I'd be charged over $700.

They sent me a bill for what insurance doesn't cover and I am not paying $89 for a consultation that ignored my actual issues and then didn't send me to a covered doctor and clinic.


DavidS - Dec 28, 2022 9:16:59 pm PST #19590 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Update: Nobody got back to us, despite frantic calls and messages in all directions, so there is nothing in place as of tonight to get us the meds tomorrow. Our 11:30 dose is the last one we have, and that will last until 5:30.

So we get to wake up in a swivet and try to solve everything in Real Time between 9am and 5:30. Imagine a countdown clock in the upper right screen as David runs around town yelling at pharmacists.

Bonus: Nobody did the dishes so I did them.

How does David respond to stress? Irritation and snappishness.


Sophia Brooks - Dec 28, 2022 10:20:19 pm PST #19591 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

That is terrible, David.


JenP - Dec 28, 2022 11:12:02 pm PST #19592 of 30000

That sucks so much, David and JZ. It shouldn't be this way. Any of it.


SuziQ - Dec 29, 2022 1:02:57 am PST #19593 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Oh, David, I'm sorry what should be the simple act of filling a prescription has turned into this. I really hope it gets resolved with the minimum pain for all.

I had surgery on my hand (arthritic thumb and trigger middle finger) about 6 weeks ago. Getting the post surgical pain meds was a bitch but thankfully K-Bug fought that battle for me. I have at least 2 more weeks in a splint, so I still can drive let alone use my left hand for anything. My OT is great and range of motion is slowly returning. But the trigger release surgery either failed or there is something further wrong as it still gets painfully stuck. I do get to work 4 hours per day, so that is progress, I guess.

The family is doing well. Our tiny overlord is two and as busy as a two year old can be. I love living with him, and his parents...I get to see him every day. CJ lived in Illinois for a while but moved back here about a year ago. It was great having all of my tiny family together for Christmas.


sj - Dec 29, 2022 4:17:50 am PST #19594 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hec, that is absolutely infuriating. I’m so sorry.


sj - Dec 29, 2022 4:34:29 am PST #19595 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

No response yet from the emails I sent to my point person last night, but it’s still early. If I don’t get a favorable response, what is my next step?


sj - Dec 29, 2022 4:50:23 am PST #19596 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The light switch for the light over our kitchen table (which isn’t in our kitchen) is now broken. It was working last night, but I still feel like blaming the cleaners at least in my head.