Am I supposed to be changing my clothes a lot? Is that the helpful thing to do?

Anya ,'Storyteller'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Jul 09, 2022 1:46:26 pm PDT #16198 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

It's been raining here pretty much all day, so we've been trying to keep Mr. S occupied.(Nevermind that he woke us up before 6:30 this morning, he's raring to go.) That has included going outside despite the rain a couple times.


-t - Jul 09, 2022 2:30:29 pm PDT #16199 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Tep! I'm so sorry.


Steph L. - Jul 09, 2022 2:39:09 pm PDT #16200 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I’m consoling myself with a quick stop at McDonald’s for a nasty yet good Filet O Fish (I’m going to let the chips fall where they may re: the gluteny bun). I haven’t had one of these in at least 10 years. Probably won’t have one for another 10, but this one was satisfying.

Back on the road!


Tom Scola - Jul 09, 2022 2:49:03 pm PDT #16201 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Gimmie that Filet O Fish!


Laura - Jul 09, 2022 5:23:03 pm PDT #16202 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Oh, Teppy! That is just awful. I'm sorry your get together ended so badly.

Jeez! I can't even imagine having to take on that much control at that age.

Yeah, he was covering their electric bills and took on all kinds of responsibility in his teens. All 4 of the kids are incredibly responsible. They had to be early on. DH was the eldest so he dealt with the most.

Me, just the opposite. Two great parents and great memories of family love and support. I was a total jerk to them, and felt like crap about it when I was old enough to realize how blessed my life was. Karma dealt me one for that, big time. Hoping it will pass.


Laura - Jul 09, 2022 5:26:31 pm PDT #16203 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Gimmie that Filet O Fish!

Loving fish as I do, and living where fresh fish is abundant, the Filet O Fish is a horror. Now it can be darn tasty, and I have consumed them, but I can't really think of it as fish. More like fish flavored block of fried stuff.


Steph L. - Jul 09, 2022 6:46:19 pm PDT #16204 of 30000
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Gimmie that Filet O Fish!

I love that commercial, although this one is a close second: [link]

the Filet O Fish is a horror.

I mean, definitely. I love really good, fresh seafood, and that sandwich doesn’t meet any of those criteria. BUT:

Now it can be darn tasty

There’s that ^^^^^^

I’m home and going to take a Covid test and unpack and fall into bed. (If the test is negative, I’ll take one tomorrow; if that one is negative, I’ll take another one Monday. I’m fuzzy on how long the incubation period is for Omicron.)


DavidS - Jul 09, 2022 6:52:58 pm PDT #16205 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

for which serenity I thank my therapist, who put up with a lot of "Okay, so much of my childhood finally makes sense, and what the gargling fuck?!?" emails over the last couple of years.

My sister advised me not to discuss this family history with my kids, but I think I need to so they have a context and history to understand where they came from, and what to look out for.


DavidS - Jul 09, 2022 6:55:34 pm PDT #16206 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Two great parents and great memories of family love and support. I was a total jerk to them, and felt like crap about it when I was old enough to realize how blessed my life was. Karma dealt me one for that, big time. Hoping it will pass.

Awww, I don't think it's Karma. And to be honest, I get a little grumpy with your boys putting you through the wringer.


-t - Jul 09, 2022 6:55:40 pm PDT #16207 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Kinda want to get myself a Filet-o-fish, now.

Talked to my mom and we are calling off the family gathering that was planned for August, originally meant to celebrate my dad’s 80th birthday last September but rescheduled 2 or 3 times due to pandemic surges and this time we are just not even going to try to reschedule. Mom’s going to try to arrange for people to visit on a more individual basis and keep me informed so I can drop by for those if I can. A little easier to control everyone’s exposure that way, and way easier to work into everyone’s schedules. I may keep the vacation days, I could use the time off. And there was some event or other close to home that I was thinking I couldn’t go to because I’d be with my folks but maybe I can, if I can remember what it was…