Simon: Captain... why did you come back for us? Mal: You're on my crew. Simon: Yeah, but you don't even like me. Why'd you come back? Mal: You're on my crew. Why we still talking about this?

'Safe'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Mar 29, 2022 3:15:31 pm PDT #14175 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

So Mr. S dumped his afternoon meds down the drain yesterday. He had taken his med for the day, and the nanny wasn't watching when he decided to do this. (He claims they fell. Sorry, I can buy one pill falling down the drain, but not 5.)

Luckily he had a new prescription on file at our pharmacy, and I got it filled and picked it up after work. Sigh...


EpicTangent - Mar 29, 2022 3:23:08 pm PDT #14176 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Oh, as usual, dear. He does keep you on your toes. At least you're never bored?


Steph L. - Mar 29, 2022 3:24:36 pm PDT #14177 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

The threat of several weeks of rest & recovery was finally the kick in the pants I needed to quit talking about it and finally make a move.

This is a good time to make your place (or parts of it) comfy and cozy!


bennett - Mar 29, 2022 3:35:04 pm PDT #14178 of 30000

Epic - going for the soft and comfy resting spots is important. I once recouperated on a really firm futon mattress and what was fine for sleeping on when healthy was not fine for resting on for days at a time. Also, with abdominal surgery, I recommend loose, pull-on pants that don't have zippers in tender places.


bennett - Mar 29, 2022 3:45:37 pm PDT #14179 of 30000

Regarding construction scheduling, sometimes last minute changes are necessary - outdoor construction can't be done in windy or wet weather. Supply issues are a problem, and you need to get the electrical work done before the drywall, etc.

Also, most builders try to start as early as possible, especially when it's hot.

My recommendation is to emphasize the importance of communication. Your contractor needs to let you know the day before he plans to work and again that morning by (time to be negotiated) if he's going to be late or has to change his plans. If he's used to doing renovations in empty houses where he doesn't have to worry about the residents, it may take him a while to get in the habit.

Good luck!


Steph L. - Mar 29, 2022 3:54:57 pm PDT #14180 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Also, with abdominal surgery, I recommend loose, pull-on pants that don't have zippers in tender places.

Or, if it's warm enough, t-shirt dresses/tunics. Or! A Mrs. Roper caftan!


EpicTangent - Mar 29, 2022 4:02:27 pm PDT #14181 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Also, with abdominal surgery, I recommend loose, pull-on pants that don't have zippers in tender places.

Yes! Already doing a mental inventory of loungy pants that don't press on the belly area AT ALL.

Or, if it's warm enough, t-shirt dresses/tunics. Or! A Mrs. Roper caftan!

Here is where I differ from you (and msbelle, I believe). I find that tunic-y, caftan-y things tend to ride up too much when I move. So while they provide the lack of pressure on the belly, the hemline that is nowhere near knees/ankles/whichever intended length is an annoyance.

Loungy pants FTW!


NoiseDesign - Mar 29, 2022 11:12:34 pm PDT #14182 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

My experience with contractors and other home repair type folks is that most of them will agree to whatever you ask, and then proceed to do whatever it is they normally do anyway. It's beyond frustrating.


Toddson - Mar 30, 2022 5:21:00 am PDT #14183 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

oh, not as usual, dear ... something new and weird

A Nebraska state legislator is claiming that schoolchildren are actively furries (he uses scare quotes) - the kids are (according to him) dressing up as cats and dogs for school .,, and some are now demanding litter boxes. um ... huh?


Laura - Mar 30, 2022 5:26:26 am PDT #14184 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Seriously, renovating, repairing, and maintaining a home unless you’re doing all of the work yourself? Is an ongoing pain that never really subsides entirely.

Alas, just as painful. This was the main reason I wanted a done boat and not a work in progress. After 12 years of Brendon renovating I am over it for a while. Of course, he is already plotting renovation projects for our friend's house where we are staying!

Loungy pants FTW!

For real! Excellent that you are getting your recovery environment in good order. It will make a real difference.