Fingers crossed, Teppy. And I have never heard of this locking pouches thing. How does that even work?? Is it to prevent people from filming?

Laura that’s sweet that you could ask a neighbor for glasses and he’d come for wine!

I am not sure how I’m allowed to adult either sometimes. Like maybe “rent an apartment and manage ok” but not “plan for retirement and own a house”? I live in fear that I am not doing something I should be and the house is going to fall down around me due to neglect. That secretly there is rot everywhere and the bathtub will fall through the ceiling or the wiring will be eaten by mice and electrocute me or something.

And I have never heard of this locking pouches thing. How does that even work?? Is it to prevent people from filming?

It’s this: [link] . And, at least for performances, it seems to be primarily about preventing filming and other IP issues. But it sounds like there are schools that use them, too, to keep students off their phones.

Fingers crossed for Tim finding a good one from the start.

Meanwhile, I can hear my spouse and my 34-year-old offspring kibbitzing about being managers before going into a Destiny raid. Ken haaaaaaates managing people and is irritated to find that he is very good at it.

AHAHAHAHAHA.

hat secretly there is rot everywhere and the bathtub will fall through the ceiling or the wiring will be eaten by mice and electrocute me or something.

We are dealing with those things right now!

BUT, here's the dealio, you can fix those things. Admittedly, it takes money.

I think previous to this home buy I had a notion that things were either SOUND or ROTTEN.

But it turns out you can do and (really with older places) must do some building maintenance. Mostly to keep the water out, but also to keep the bugs out, and the electricity where it belongs.

While we were fretting over our Building Disclosure document (85 pages) JZ and I happened to watch a reaction video to It's A Wonderful Life. And it was heartening (almost heroic) to watch Mary take the old building she loved and turn it into a wonderful home.

(Side note: As I've often thought that the Harry Potter stories would be much more interesting through the viewpoint of Hermione as the chief protagonist, there is an interesting story to be told of Mary as the hero of It's a Wonderful Life.)

Anyway, our takeaway was that buying a home was an acceptance of stewardship. When we were having mild freakouts over the disclosure our realtor kept saying, "This building is fine. They don't make them like they used to." And we learned to understand that it was structurally sound and you have to make some effort to fend off water wherever it seeks to enter.

Hah but it’s the maintenance I’m worried I’m ducking up and creating a future bathtub-through-ceiling event!

We got the horrifying way too long and involved home inspection for ourselves a while back, just to use as a punch list. Inspectors list things that would never be on your own list. It was pricey, but worth it to not have surprises.

I took monday and tuesday off this week, no plans, just some recovery days and luckily times with the time change. I've slept in an extra 45min - an hour each morning.

Yesterday I did nothing, but clear off the Tivo and knit. Today I am going to do a little more.

shower
library pick-up holds
bakery stop
post office mail things
grocery store

A good start and not too much.

msbelle, that sounds lovely. Enjoy yourself!

I was going to try to go to the grocery store, but I'm a little overwhelmed with all the other stuff that needs to get done. So, I ordered deliver. I still have to go to the pharmacy later. ltc hasn't fallen asleep before 10 any night this week (probably thanks to daylight savings time) and is completely exhausted. I do not expect her to be in a good mood when I pick her up from school this afternoon. She has a half day tomorrow and is spending the afternoon with her grandparents, while I go visit Papa again.

I hope Tim likes his therapist.

My bridge is fixed. My "Vampire teeth" (how dentist described them) have been filed down to hopefully eliminate my bridge breaking again.

Mom had to get Social Security figured out for Jay's son, so he can get death benefits. And right now my mom is trying to explain to Aunt Wanda how the money works and what it can be used for and my Aunt isn't getting it and I guess fussing about the things she will have to do.

I just heard mom say "well I'd be glad to have the money coming to my account ." And she's just had to explain what money she was talking about.

My aunt doesn't need to be a guardian she needs one. But right now there is no one else. J's mom is doing all the classes she needs to for her probation and she is going petition to regain custody . Not ideal but at this point its better than the current situation.

Ongoing maintenance is why I've never had a strong desire to own a home. Just seeing that Mom had both the upstairs and downstairs a/c units fail at the same time and had to deal with a Florida summer with no a/c or partial a/c. And then Dad and Mom both had roof issues and then there plumbing issues. Then there is yard work and cleaning out gutters.

All done except for the bakery which was closed. That all took just an hour and a half.

IT IS SO LOVELY HERE TODAY! really lucked out taking these as my day's off. I have the sliding back door open to the deck and a VERY rare occurrence, the front curtain thrown open.