I'm eleven hundred and twenty years old! Just gimme a friggin' beer!

Anya ,'Storyteller'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Calli - Jan 19, 2022 7:02:33 am PST #12225 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad Tim will be able to visit his father in reasonable safety, Steph.

I wanted once for someone to say "Warren has a soul!"

Yes, this. Lot's of people who've done horrible things have souls. Suggesting that evil acts are the provenance of Monsters(tm) just makes dealing with regular people's evil harder. I prefer Pratchett's approach where he talks about a man who tortured someone in a dungeon for hours and a man who gave charity to a beggar and how they were the same man.


Dana - Jan 19, 2022 7:17:44 am PST #12226 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

JK Rowling is another example, though without the gender complication. She does lots of charitable stuff. She's also a TERF. Do I take all of the Harry Potter references out of my speech? She already got my money from the books and the movies. There's no way around the fact that she had, and continues to have, huge influence. Should charities turn down her money?

Welcome to my early morning sleepy rambles.


Tom Scola - Jan 19, 2022 7:17:54 am PST #12227 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

The Joss article has me depressed thinking about my own self-loathing, and the things I do to sabotage myself, and how implacable it seems.


Steph L. - Jan 19, 2022 7:31:55 am PST #12228 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

The Joss article has me depressed thinking about my own self-loathing, and the things I do to sabotage myself, and how implacable it seems.

Huge difference here: Joss used his issues as an excuse for why he was unable to stop himself from treating people like things and abusing them. You don't. You DON'T. And that difference is enormous. It's everything.


Pix - Jan 19, 2022 7:55:19 am PST #12229 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

What. Teppy. Said.


DavidS - Jan 19, 2022 8:32:01 am PST #12230 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

The Joss article has me depressed thinking about my own self-loathing, and the things I do to sabotage myself, and how implacable it seems.

First of all he's a narcissist, and you're not. Second, he hurts other people and you hurt yourself.

I wish there was an airflow button for you, Tom, like we have on a car. Instead of circulating your own self-loathing you could be flooded with the way everybody else feels about you.


Toddson - Jan 19, 2022 9:16:06 am PST #12231 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

OK, it's not exactly an island, but how about this for the Buffistas? since most are working remotely, location shouldn't be an issue.


-t - Jan 19, 2022 9:25:17 am PST #12232 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm sorry it hit you like that, Tom. That's not fair or right.

I keep deleting everything I want to say about the Joss thing. Just did it again. Cannot get the thoughts into words that seem right.


-t - Jan 19, 2022 9:26:37 am PST #12233 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I do kind of love the commitment to really castling up that castle, Toddson


EpicTangent - Jan 19, 2022 9:27:10 am PST #12234 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I wish there was an airflow button for you, Tom, like we have on a car. Instead of circulating your own self-loathing you could be flooded with the way everybody else feels about you.

This is a really gorgeous simile, David. And also a wish that many of us share for you, Tom.