Ah, the pitter patter of tiny feet in huge combat boots. Shut up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jan 06, 2022 7:24:18 am PST #11928 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Laura take care of yourself. And take it as easy as possible.

I'm sorry to hear about your family friend. I hope Brendon is able to stay Covid free


-t - Jan 06, 2022 7:36:48 am PST #11929 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

ION 22 people have requested peer reviews from me so I will be hiding under the blankets until they go away.

Good god. I can't imagine. I don't think we are doing anything like peer reviews this year (we sort of did last year but maybe just in our department) but I haven't read the instructions yet so WHO KNOWS.

I hear you on the recency thing and also which re-organization would you like me to give examples from of how I met the changing goals? Searching Natter for my complaints may actually be helpful.

Recovery~ma for Laura and butt~ma for JenP


-t - Jan 06, 2022 7:41:27 am PST #11930 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

ION I am having cookies for breakfast TAKE THAT COOKIE CRISP WIZARD


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 06, 2022 8:03:02 am PST #11931 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Sorry to hear about the recovery roughness, Laura. May you feel better soon.

Fingers crossed for your butt, JenP.

I am so thankful we don't seem to do self evaluations anymore. Just tell me if I'm doing something wrong so I can fix it, and let me chug along with a halfway decent work ethic and zero ambition. In five years I want to see myself doing exactly what I'm doing now, for slightly better pay and with more gray hairs.


-t - Jan 06, 2022 8:15:59 am PST #11932 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You are living the dream, Matt. Congratulations!

I am comforting myself with the thought that getting a glowing performance appraisal typically means a 3% raise and getting an ok performance appraisal more like 2% so who the fuck cares (and getting a bad performance appraisal would be surprising at this point). Unless no one is getting raises which we won't find out until after this is all done. Which could happen, we didn't make our revenue plan for the year after all. Which would mean even fewer fucks given + more smoldering resentment, I guess.


sj - Jan 06, 2022 8:21:16 am PST #11933 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I’ve never had to do a self eval, but it sounds like hell. I never have nice things to say about myself.

This week is being difficult. Several relatives with non-Covid health problems, several relatives with Covid, and ltc is being teased at school and keeps coming home in tears.


meara - Jan 06, 2022 8:28:04 am PST #11934 of 30000

Yeah I feel like even a glowing appraisal would not keep up with inflation these days. I was shopping yesterday and damn—often I’m like “this seems more expensive?” But don’t remember prices. But like, the bag salads were usually on sale for 3/$10 and now are on sale for 3/$12!! Geez!!

Laura good to see you and good luck with the shower!!


sj - Jan 06, 2022 8:52:12 am PST #11935 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yeah I feel like even a glowing appraisal would not keep up with inflation these days. I was shopping yesterday and damn—often I’m like “this seems more expensive?” But don’t remember prices. But like, the bag salads were usually on sale for 3/$10 and now are on sale for 3/$12!! Geez!!

Oh, yeah. Everything is ridiculously more expensive these days.


JenP - Jan 06, 2022 8:57:39 am PST #11936 of 30000

Thanks for the butt, -ma -t and Matt! Writing that sentence is a delight; I love here. Also, appointment went swimmingly.

Laura, I missed your update, because I posted and ran. Recovery hang in -ma to you. I hope the shower went well and makes you feel better. And, yes, sorry for all the bad health news from family and friends.

sj, I'm sorry for your rough week with family health news, too.


bennett - Jan 06, 2022 9:19:25 am PST #11937 of 30000

I'll just throw this out there: The only thing I've found to help in writing self-evals is large quantities of alcohol. It helps reduce my natural reticence/reserve/whatever and, of course, the pain.