Y'all see the man hanging out of the spaceship with the really big gun? Now I'm not saying you weren't easy to find. It was kinda out of our way, and he didn't want to come in the first place. Man's lookin' to kill some folk. So really it's his will y'all should worry about thwarting.

Mal ,'Safe'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Dec 29, 2021 12:11:42 pm PST #11751 of 30000

That's cool, David! Give 'em a b.org hug, eh?


askye - Dec 29, 2021 12:13:41 pm PST #11752 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I was just thinking about Maria and hoping she was doing well.


askye - Dec 29, 2021 12:15:39 pm PST #11753 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I got a text from Mom. My cousin J has been moved to hospice. He has had another series of strokes and his body is shutting down. I said something about the rehab place being the reason and she said it was ...complicated.. but couldn't talk at the moment because my aunt was right there.

I don't know if J's son will get to see him before he dies. I hate this past year. I really really hate it.


-t - Dec 29, 2021 12:29:16 pm PST #11754 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm so sorry, askye.


Jesse - Dec 29, 2021 12:29:47 pm PST #11755 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm so sorry.


JenP - Dec 29, 2021 12:30:29 pm PST #11756 of 30000

Oh, I'm so sorry, askye.


askye - Dec 29, 2021 12:45:01 pm PST #11757 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I don't know how I feel right now. Except just sad.

And J's exwife has been out of jail now for a few weeks and her daughter let Mom know that she (the ex wife) has been getting drunk again. Which makes me sad too because I think based on what little I know of her parents and sibling, what she needs is a lot of therapy and support.

This also means that the ex wife will get to make decisions about J's son and all of that and .,.it's a mess. That child needs a miracle and there aren't any.


askye - Dec 29, 2021 1:20:32 pm PST #11758 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

On a side note my mom's brother was married for a long time, he and my aunt got divorced when his daughters were in their 20s to a woman who was only a few years older than his oldest daughter and who has the same name as Mom. I haven't ever really gotten to know her so she's always "my uncle's wife" in my head.

To my aunt, however, she has become "wife-in-law" and my aunt just posted a selfie of the three of them saying Happy Birthday Wife in Law .

Which makes me smile that they can build that kind of relationship and support system.


Sophia Brooks - Dec 29, 2021 1:39:10 pm PST #11759 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I am so sorry, askye.


-t - Dec 29, 2021 1:41:07 pm PST #11760 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, wife-in-law is sweet