Jayne: 'Cause I don't know these folks. Don't much care to. Mal: They're whores. Jayne: I'm in.

'Heart Of Gold'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Jan 30, 2024 5:56:30 am PST #8008 of 8184
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Someone once commented that dress sizes were designed by 16 ferrets on crack. Doesn't sound impossible.


Laura - Jan 30, 2024 6:02:58 am PST #8009 of 8184
Our wings are not tired.

I don't pay as much attention to size as I do comfort of late, so I probably take a larger size than needed. Also, yes, sizes make no sense. When I buy something on line I have to read all the reviews to see if they run small or large, usually it is small.


EpicTangent - Jan 30, 2024 10:31:46 am PST #8010 of 8184
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure some of it is people who went from a 10 to a 6 counting it as 4 sizes rather than 2 (can they be that dumb?) But still - 60 lbs was from size 20 to 18 (or a lot of 2XL to XL). Seems like it ought to be more. Though the wardrobe that I don't have to *completely* replace says to be thankful!


Toddson - Jan 30, 2024 11:26:15 am PST #8011 of 8184
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Someone once bought something online ... I think it was a crocheted vest. She posted a picture of it being worn ... the size was so ridiculously small that it would only fit on her cat.


brenda m - Jan 30, 2024 12:54:02 pm PST #8012 of 8184
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Epic, I have the same reaction. In my FB group for the program I’ve been doing there’s all these people who are like I lost 12 pounds and two sizes! Like what??

I think there’s a few things happening here. For me personally, I carry a lot of my excess weight around the middle so while my waist has shrunk, it had further to go Also, I think a lot of my clothes, didn’t really fit all that well, and were either stretched out or maybe too snug in the waist to begin with.

But I also think you’re right on that the gradations in sizes are smaller at the lower end.

That, or else people are fudging their data, or squeezing into smaller sizes that they don’t really fit just yet.

Probably all of the above.


Steph L. - Jan 30, 2024 1:06:38 pm PST #8013 of 8184
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I think sometimes as people lose weight, their body composition shifts, and for some people that can mean that a big loss translates into only 1-2 sizes, while for other people a smaller loss translates to more sizes. Bodies are so fucking weird.

Jeans are the devil, in that I can pull one pair completely off without unbuttoning or unzipping them, but the next smaller size doesn't fit. How is that right, devil garment? How? You are why people live in leggings.


Jessica - Jan 30, 2024 1:29:26 pm PST #8014 of 8184
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I was the same clothing size for my entire twenties no matter how much weight I gained. Then after I had kids my body changed shape/size so completely I had to replace my entire wardrobe. There's just such a huge overlap between Womens' Clothing Sizes Are Bullshit and Bodies Are Weird Sometimes that I couldn't even begin to predict what would happen if I lost a bunch of weight now.


meara - Jan 31, 2024 9:05:38 am PST #8015 of 8184

Yeah—I’ve also lost 60 pounds and gone from a 14 to a 4(!) now. But I would say that I was mostly wearing the bigger of my 14s and so on, and still could wear 12s for a long time. The last 10 pounds or so have gone from 8 to 4, so there’s definitely more change in tiny increments there. (Also my waist is still not that small but I have no ass anymore so things fit around my hips…I’d rather have an ass?)

Also definitely size inflation going on—I have a size 8 skirt from college that still barely fits, even though I’m 5 pounds less than I was then…


Dana - Jan 31, 2024 10:10:35 am PST #8016 of 8184
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

meara, do you mind if I ask you about the drug you're on?


meara - Jan 31, 2024 10:35:50 am PST #8017 of 8184

Dana, it’s an experimental drug—I’m on a trial so could either be on placebo (lol totally not), semaglutide, a new drug called cagrilinitide, or a combo of those two (most likely what I’m on!) called CagriSema. Cagrilinitide works on a different thing than Semaglutide does.

For me it’s been amazing—I did have some pretty bad nausea when I first tried to increase the dose, but since then it’s rarely been an issue and more an issue of “trying to eat ENOUGH”. And some constipation (because it slows down your whole digestive system). I’ve not eaten as much protein as I should’ve, so know I’ve lost more muscle than ideal. But it’s been super easy, for the first time ever in my life. At this point they lowered my dose because I’ve lost all the weight I need or want to, and they don’t want me to lose more.

I’m a little worried that when the trial is over (July) I will promptly gain back all the weight but crossing my fingers that I can either get on a follow up study or manage to pay for a maintenance dose of Ozempic or similar.

If anyone is interested in a trial I highly recommend searching clinicaltrials.gov for obesity or weight loss indications and seeing if anything is enrolling! My sister found an academic study that has had her on Semaglutide, and my brother found a cagrisema vs Semaglutide study that he just started on (so no placebo!).

[link]