Faith: A kid. Angel's got a kid. Wesley: Connor. Faith: A teenage kid born last year. Wesley: I told you, he grew up in a hell dimension. Faith: Right. And what, Cordelia spent her last summer as… Wesley: A divine being. Faith: Uh-huh. Can I just ask--What the hell are you people doing?

'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - May 19, 2021 9:21:09 am PDT #7632 of 8185
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

You can probably spear an entire skewer's worth of cicadas on your trekking sticks.

Bug-kabobs.


lisah - May 19, 2021 9:23:29 am PDT #7633 of 8185
Punishingly Intricate

Sending love, Laura, and am really glad you have lots of medical experts on speed dial.

My mother, at 78, would still be a pretty active traveler but my Dad has advanced Parkinson's and she's his primary caretaker. I'd love to take her any number of places but I don't think she'd feel ok traveling when my dad's not able to. They did do a fair amount of travel around the US, and to Ireland, the UK, and Italy, though, when he was able to.


Laura - May 19, 2021 10:05:06 am PDT #7634 of 8185
Our wings are not tired.

Mom was still well enough to enjoy travel into her 90s.

I told DH this morning that the last 30+ years were business and kids and the next 30 has to be us. He replied that he probably only had 5-10 good ones in him. Of course I responded that I had to get in shape for DH#4 then.

In waiting room for MRI.


amyparker - May 19, 2021 10:20:24 am PDT #7635 of 8185
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

Laura, that sounds scary and I am glad you are having matters looked at. May whatever work you undertake to make you feel better in your body be rewarded.

Did someone mention Reformer Pilates? {does the excited meerkat dance} It is my favorite thing. It is not everyone's thing - my yoga teacher who danced professionally for years haaaaaaaates it - and you absolutely do want at least one private session before you start dropping money on classes. But one of the requirements for our next place is enough space for me to have a Stott machine at home, that is how much fun I have on them.


DavidS - May 19, 2021 10:21:48 am PDT #7636 of 8185
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Did someone mention Reformer Pilates? {does the excited meerkat dance} It is my favorite thing.

Good advice on the private lesson first. I have several options within walking distance. Just been waiting to feel safe to go into an indoor exercise space.


amyparker - May 19, 2021 10:40:23 am PDT #7637 of 8185
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

I have several options within walking distance.

Yay!

Just been waiting to feel safe to go into an indoor exercise space.

That is a good decision.


flea - May 19, 2021 2:02:13 pm PDT #7638 of 8185
information libertarian

In my observance of various elder family members, I feel like if you’re reasonably active and moderately lucky, most people are good until about 80. After that it’s a crapshoot. My mother is 71 and capable of anything I am, and she dragged her husband (now 89) along until a couple of years ago, although I doubt he enjoyed it much, and he napped a lot. My father is 75 and hates exercise but is big into gardening and home renovation and he’d manage to walk across Scotland except he hates exercise.


lisah - May 19, 2021 3:06:14 pm PDT #7639 of 8185
Punishingly Intricate

The moderately lucky part is where the universe will get ya. My father was always active and reasonably healthy but Parkinson's is a motherfucker.


flea - May 19, 2021 3:46:42 pm PDT #7640 of 8185
information libertarian

Yes, my grandfather died of Parkinson’s. I’m sorry your father is facing it.


Cass - May 19, 2021 5:23:22 pm PDT #7641 of 8185
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

The most concerning thing is my brain.

Really glad you are getting it looked at as your spicy brain is a favorite of mine.

Also calling my Dr. to get them continuing to harass my insurance to cover a CT scan.