It sounds like it's more or less the least-bad option available. Can you talk to the parents about "community norms" around risky behavior.
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DebetEsse - Dec 30, 2020 10:19:10 am PST #7523 of 8185
Woe to the fucking wicked.
Cashmere - Dec 30, 2020 10:21:38 am PST #7524 of 8185
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We've had to make the decision to send Oliver back to school (blended, part in-person, part virtual) because they are failing. I honestly feel like the biggest community spread isn't necessarily inside the schools but what families decide to do outside.
Owen is going all-online for the rest of the year, but it will be a more structured program of online participation.
Looking back, I wish I had pulled them out completely and home-schooled, but I don't think I could have pulled it off with both of us working.
Of course all of this is going to happen at the end of January--so we'll see what the fallout is after the holidays. Everything could change. The point of all of it is that you have to be prepared to make changes and adapt to the situation on the ground and do what's best for you family. I wish more people had the flexibility and resources to do that.
sj - Dec 30, 2020 11:50:59 am PST #7525 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I’ve had ltc back in school this year because both her mental health and my own mental health were really suffering after 6 months of being home together. I worry every day that I made the wrong decision, but it seemed to be the least bad option.
Glamcookie - Dec 30, 2020 12:53:48 pm PST #7526 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
There is just no perfect answer. We're probably going to send him and have that be the only COVID risk we are taking. I feel like if we don't, he'll have to repeat second grade and while that's certainly not the end of the world, I know it would make him spiral. Fucking COVID, fucking Trump, fucking 2020.
Kate P. - Dec 30, 2020 2:50:41 pm PST #7527 of 8185
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
That seems entirely reasonable to me, Glam. Good luck -- I hope it's a good fit for him.
meara - Dec 30, 2020 3:22:01 pm PST #7528 of 8185
Yeah, I say talk to the other families and see if there’s anything big that strikes you as not ok safety wise other than school, and then decide, but sounds like it would be helpful? On the other hand, I have a friend in NC who is a hospitalist at a children’s hospital who said the system is so swamped they’re about to have to start treating adult patients too, which is scary.
sj - Dec 30, 2020 3:51:20 pm PST #7529 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Glam, that seems very reasonable. School and doctors appointments are our only risks right now. ltc wears a mask all day at school. Do you know if this pod is doing that?
Zenkitty - Dec 30, 2020 5:36:57 pm PST #7530 of 8185
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
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Glamcookie - Dec 31, 2020 9:59:08 am PST #7531 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
ltc wears a mask all day at school. Do you know if this pod is doing that?
I don't think they are, but I'm not 100% sure, so will add to my list of questions.
Glamcookie - Jan 04, 2021 7:22:45 am PST #7532 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
COVID has officially reached my extended family. My uncle (who has many pre-existing conditions and is in his mid-70s) is in the ICU on a ventilator with COVID. He and my aunt went to their son's home for Christmas, where there were 3 adults and 2 teens, none of whom are being very safe. Nine days later, COVID. I just...