One of you is gonna fall and die, and I'm not cleaning it up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Dec 30, 2020 11:50:59 am PST #7525 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I’ve had ltc back in school this year because both her mental health and my own mental health were really suffering after 6 months of being home together. I worry every day that I made the wrong decision, but it seemed to be the least bad option.


Glamcookie - Dec 30, 2020 12:53:48 pm PST #7526 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

There is just no perfect answer. We're probably going to send him and have that be the only COVID risk we are taking. I feel like if we don't, he'll have to repeat second grade and while that's certainly not the end of the world, I know it would make him spiral. Fucking COVID, fucking Trump, fucking 2020.


Kate P. - Dec 30, 2020 2:50:41 pm PST #7527 of 8185
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

That seems entirely reasonable to me, Glam. Good luck -- I hope it's a good fit for him.


meara - Dec 30, 2020 3:22:01 pm PST #7528 of 8185

Yeah, I say talk to the other families and see if there’s anything big that strikes you as not ok safety wise other than school, and then decide, but sounds like it would be helpful? On the other hand, I have a friend in NC who is a hospitalist at a children’s hospital who said the system is so swamped they’re about to have to start treating adult patients too, which is scary.


sj - Dec 30, 2020 3:51:20 pm PST #7529 of 8185
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Glam, that seems very reasonable. School and doctors appointments are our only risks right now. ltc wears a mask all day at school. Do you know if this pod is doing that?


Zenkitty - Dec 30, 2020 5:36:57 pm PST #7530 of 8185
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Did everyone see the Google Doodle today? It's beautiful.


Glamcookie - Dec 31, 2020 9:59:08 am PST #7531 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

ltc wears a mask all day at school. Do you know if this pod is doing that?

I don't think they are, but I'm not 100% sure, so will add to my list of questions.


Glamcookie - Jan 04, 2021 7:22:45 am PST #7532 of 8185
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

COVID has officially reached my extended family. My uncle (who has many pre-existing conditions and is in his mid-70s) is in the ICU on a ventilator with COVID. He and my aunt went to their son's home for Christmas, where there were 3 adults and 2 teens, none of whom are being very safe. Nine days later, COVID. I just...


JenP - Jan 04, 2021 8:32:55 am PST #7533 of 8185

I'm so sorry to hear that, Glam.


DavidS - Jan 04, 2021 9:05:05 am PST #7534 of 8185
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

That's horrible news, Glam. I'm sorry.