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Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

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sj - Nov 19, 2020 3:12:44 pm PST #7380 of 8114
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I was on prozac the whole time I breastfed, ltc seems okay.


sj - Nov 19, 2020 3:17:33 pm PST #7381 of 8114
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Prozac stopped doing anything for me about a year after Francesca was born. So, I switched to zoloft, which takes the edge off but that's about it. I'm hoping the combo, which I've never done a combo of meds before, will really help.


JenP - Nov 19, 2020 4:42:30 pm PST #7382 of 8114

I was on Zoloft and Wellbutrin together a couple decades ago, and it was uneventful. I've also been on both separately. Really the only side effects that I noticed were for Zoloft - the libido dampening effect, and it also scrambled my brain in terms of short term memory acuity when I took it. I was on Zoloft during the Hospital Year recently, so who cares about either of those effects there, but I've tapered off now. Don't think I need anything right now, but we'll see.

I hope the combo works well for you, sj.


quester - Nov 19, 2020 4:54:46 pm PST #7383 of 8114
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Yeah sleep, sj! that schedule sucks, askye.

so, something happened today that has me very worried.

A new neighbor moved into the apartment next to mine. He is a very angry man. there also seems to be a child living in a tiny apartment. I don't know age or gender but I'm worried about them. I can't be sure but the man is verbally abusive to the child, they were moving so there was a lot of banging and thumping going on, so I can't be sure about any physical abuse.

I went to the drugstore to pick up a prescription, and when I came back I could hear the man talking, possibly on the phone and he sounded like he'd been drinking. Of course, I can't be sure of anything. I work full time from my apartment but I'm tethered to the phone as a CSR for Insurance agents.

I've only seen a glimpse of the man, it's quiet over there now. the man's a smoker so he has to go outside to smoke so I may run into to him sometimes. Not sure how I'm going to handle that.

For now, it's another source of stress.


Pix - Nov 19, 2020 5:53:16 pm PST #7384 of 8114
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

sj, what you have sounds almost exactly like what happened to ND when he ended up with a herniated disc in his neck — he’s also on gabipenten (too lazy to Google spelling), and it’s really helped it. It takes awhile to build up in your system, though, so he would probably say to be patient if it doesn’t work right away. He also had side effects initially that faded over time.

Also, Wellbutrin worked well for me and for my ADHD until it didn’t, but that’s just weird brain chemistry. It has a great track record. I hope it helps.


sj - Nov 19, 2020 6:52:55 pm PST #7385 of 8114
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks, Pix. That is what my PCP was leaning toward, and she was the first doctor to even consider my neck as the source of the problem. I see the orthopedic tomorrow. I only have the gabapentin for at night, was ND on it more often? What did they end up doing for it?


Katerina Bee - Nov 19, 2020 8:58:26 pm PST #7386 of 8114
Herding cats for fun

Yikes, nothing worse than an awful neighbor. Loud angry voices and thin walled small apartments would freak me right out. How awful, sorry this is happening.


Pix - Nov 19, 2020 9:12:01 pm PST #7387 of 8114
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I only have the gabapentin for at night, was ND on it more often? What did they end up doing for it?

He would be able to answer that better — I've let him know to check in when he can. He started only at night and ramped up to multiple times a day.


Cass - Nov 19, 2020 10:52:31 pm PST #7388 of 8114
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Gabapentin is the bomb for nerve pain for a lot of humans and dogs. It doesn't help my neck because that is vertebrae moving towards my left ear and getting locked out of place. But for my lower back and hip, it helps a lot. It can cause fatigue but that seems to be something the patient either ramps up dosage, frequency or it just normalizes pretty quickly.


Shir - Nov 20, 2020 12:53:52 am PST #7389 of 8114
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

sj, I'm glad you found that doctor.

quester, I'm sorry about the neighbor. I guess that staying alert is the only thing you can do now?